
Wow, this is a tough one. They're all hurting in different ways and need a serious talk session, preferably with an actual therapist. It's like he completely disassociated during sex and that is terrifying. I hope this causes an immediate talk session. They can't continue to have sex while he's like this!
I agree, Lyle. I too think you should be able to reciprocate reaching that dangly thing that swing in tha back of your throat!