
As a gay person it makes me so uncomfortable for the guy to be gay but to get hard and cum from a girl.. that's not how it works

i'm sorry i really don't mean to debate you on this because as a lesbian that's had sex with men like yeah it can be traumatic I agree but it can also be neutral. saying "that's not how it works" is really simplifying things. personal experiences aren't universal. physiologically speaking it's still very possible..

He had no reaction of being uncomfortable and I am saying it doesn't sit well with him being so neutral and nonchalant about it all. He could have been written as bi and that would make sense. But to have a character as my sexuality not care who he sleeps with despite being a gay man is questionable, especially since he's a gay man who knows and accepts he's gay

Refer to page 11 where he says he’s done training with women before. He has an open mind and knows whats going to happen and is ok with it, for the most part. He’s doing his job. This is a work task he’s consented to do. You are not the character. This does not make the character unrealistic or bi. No one fits into a specific box. This is yaoi. Ignore your own reality and try to enjoy the story.

ah yes you can, i'm gay and i have had blowjob from girl before, you just need to imagine a guy in your head instead of the girl and the guy in this yaoi is also close his eyes during it. also gay guy depends on their feminine can be different from each other, like you can see some act very feminine but some act like a total straight guy.

It’s really not about sexuality tho. It doesn’t matter wether a woman/man straight/gay/bi etc. person does it, It’s disrespectful to use someone like a sextoy. Idk in which situation this person was when it happened but it doesn’t sound like he was forced into it so it’s just sad that there’s no respect towards the person who pleasures you. I just think it’s hurtful and almost no one would be okay with that.

i can see where youre coming from but its not like theyd know lol. its not that big of a deal and shit happens sometimes its just human nature. human nature isn't disrespectful. just cus u imagine someone else when doing it with someone doesnt mean youre like using someone as a sex toy and nor does it make someone free of guilt.

Hola another lesbian here.
Thinking about doing it with a guy makes me wanna throw up. I can't even Handel it when strange guys touch me in some sexual way- which of course applies to almost all women lol - but even when I think some man is attractive and I enjoy his company I still wouldn't be able t make out with him and feel good while doing it. EVEN if he is some kind of sex god or something I don't care. I think I would puke on his dick so I really understand what you mean but since this is yaoi nothing that was discussed in the comments before really matters ...

Don't assume everyone fetishizes gay men. no one not even the original poster can speak for everyone on this issue. I find it funny how you speak so condescendingly when you can't even formulate your sentences properly. Don't gate-keep a topic that everyone should be able to talk about. People like you disgust me.

do you even know what yaoi and yuri means? Boys love and girls love, it's not only homo boy x homo boy or lesbian girl x lesbian girl. Both explain that there is a relationship between two boy/girls not the sexuality of them. You can argue about the overuse of the word "gay" (by mostly fans/readers) when it comes to the yaoi genre but remember the word gay can be used as an umbrella term

bruv bisexuals dont need their own genre in this situation, bi men are just as attracted to men as gay men so why cant they be written to be together? same with bi women and lesbians, i honestly think bisexual ppl need better representation in this genre because far too often do i see the whole entire trope of 'bisexual man dates other man and dumps him for a woman, so now this gay man he was dating hates bisexuals' which is a very disgusting stereotype of bisexual people (that theyre cheaters/will always leave you for the opposite gender) that people actually believe. the people writing these stories just need to not be biphobic about it lmao. also that first thing i said isnt to say bi people shouldnt ever find their own genre of romance fiction bc i do believe there is a very unique experience to being bisexual and dating people but like..... the push for that shouldnt come from peoples biphobia. also am a gay man :)

Yeah. I'm a straight women but I've had mutual masturbation with girls before . I can't bring myself to kiss them though. And sexuality is fluid . One can identify as a straight person untill they are not anymore . And there is levels of it . One gay person may be disgusted by this but that doesn't apply to everyone. Cause once again sexuality isn't just black and white.
I love how straight forward and proactive suho is and not the type to just play cat and mouse with his feelings