
Eungyo doesn't want to make the first move because Sunwoo's been acting like he doesn't want to be with him which is the total opposite of how he's acted in the past 10 years and it hurts his pride
BUT CAN YOU BLAME HIM THO Everyone around him tells him that Eungyo will never love him and in the novel Eungyo actually avoids him and has been staying at a hotel ever since he came to his house (bc of sexual frustration). OFF COURSE HE'S GONNA FEEL UNWANTED
Is it the top that bonded??
maybe because he is the one suffering? as he should
Yeah it is. He's the one experiencing the side effects so it's him that's bonded. He loves him, but doesn't really realize that's what it is he's feeling
The last story that did one-sided bonding, they explained it as an issue where the one who is experiencing problems was the one who was bonded with. So his issue is that he didn't bond with his partner when he should have.