Put a finger down if you read this update immediately after this site being brought back
I did in biology ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I read it in my AP Human geography ;)
Reading this update right away after this site being brought back
Sht. I got scared that I may not be able to read here again :< does that always happen? I am just a begginer so maybe it happended before.
I'm new also ಥ‿ಥ my poor ass cried a lot
I literally forgot what happened and I thought it was really a new chap. (=・ω・=) I fucking miss them.
They will just hurt themselves. If haesoo picks one of them, the other one has to suffer, and haesoo too because he knows he will hurt someone. I just want haesoo to find someone else he can love without hurting someone and being hurt. Joowon and Taekyung are the perfect match, they can fill each other's holes (in the heart, not in the ass).
im sorry but the "not in the ass" IM EVAPORATING—
i mean yeah people get hurt when relationships end thats just...Life. haesoo dumping taku but not picking joowon cause it would "hurt him" is ridiculous. now if he just didnt want to be with either of them then thats ok but if he wants joowon and then is like "but it'll hurt taku! so i cant" thats....nonsensical lol. taku will be fine and eventually love again? he's only 24 omg. can u imagine ur first big love and your LAST love being at that age? its not as if haesoo and taku have endured some huge life altering event thats connecting them in a way that will be impossible to replicate with another human being lol. they just had good sexual chemistry and got along well and haesoo needed a break from his undefined relationship with joowon. i get if people like taku/haesoo more for w/e reason but idg people thinking Taku will not be okay after being sad for idk a few months TOPS and then moving on with his life? have he and haesoo even been together for a year yet? cmon now lol. it aint that deep.
THE SEME!! SJWHBZWI I ONLY KNOW HE INTRODUCED AS MR. KWON. I FORGOT HIS NAMEEEEE
Ok for all the ppl rants abt stockholm syndrome and doesn't really knows what stockholm syndrome means in the first place.
Stockholm syndrome is falling in love with someone while being scared with them (being held captive by them.
It's the same situation as: you're in a relationship with someone for years but your partner starts to abuse you. You can't leave them because you love them and you still hope that they will change, so you will do things that won't make them get angry and hurt you (you're scared).
So basically stock-holm syndrome is still love but a toxic one. You can't say "it's just your brain" because love comes from the brain too.
Stock-holm syndrome is not just falling in love while being held captive (so Nakyum from POTN and Dohyun from Warehouse doesn't/didn't have stock-holm syndrome)
Yes YoonBum had stockholm syndrome but that doesn't mean he didn't love sangwoo and was just obsessed. Like I said, he still loves him but afraid of him at the same time, and yes, those two can come together. Again, stockholm syndrome doesn't mean fake love that your brain only tells you.
yah, its still toxic asf
Ok for all the ppl who still says that dohyun has stockholm syndrome and doesn't really knows what stockholm syndrome means in the first place.
Stockholm syndrome is falling in love with someone while being scared with them (being held captive by them.
It's the same situation as: you're in a relationship with someone for years but your partner starts to abuse you. You can't leave them because you love them and you still hope that they will change, so you will do things that won't make them get angry and hurt you (you're scared).
So basically stock-holm syndrome is still love but a toxic one. You can't say "it's just your brain" because love comes from the brain too.
Stock-holm syndrome is not just falling in love while being held captive (so Nakyum from POTN doesn't have stock-holm syndrome too but Bum from KS has it[yet still bum loves sangwoo in a toxic way])
So none of these define Sungho ang Dohyun's relationship, therefore Dohyun doesn't/didn't have stock-holm syndrome.
Wait, what :))? I didn't read all this manga so now I'm not talking about Dohyun, but Stockholm syndrome is NOT falling in love, it doesn't have any relevance with love. It's a sort of attachment, but just as a defensive mechanism, because someone is so scared and emotionally stressed that begins to do anything (and think in strange ways) to feel better in this situation, it's a survival technique.
Also, if you're in a relationship and the partner become abusive and you don't leave, that isn't stockholm syndrome, because you were already in a relationship with them, already had feelings and you stay because of your past. Stockholm syndrome can occur in cases of abduction, where you didn't know the captor till then.
thanks for clarifying this. alot of people dont know what stockholm syndrome is. it's NOT love and its not the same as what goes on in the mind of someone trapped in an abusive relationship. Dohyun doesnt have SS for two main reasons. he alrdy knew sungho and had a strong attachment to him before life drew them apart. and 2. he never once tries to suppress himself for sungho, and would on purpose lash out at him or attack him. he did try to get away and when he stopped doing so it was because he finally started to wake up to his own repressed feelings and memories. and then ofc at the end he's no longer under sungho's confinement. yet still goes out of his way to protect sungho from legal reprecussions and fatal injury. (and ofc he chases him to make sungho stay). none of this is the behavior of SS. he didnt start to sympathize with his captor because of his trauma from captivity. i wish people would recognize that even if this relationship is fucked up and not smth to idealize for real life (obviously) it doesnt mean it needs to be pathologized or turned into a "textbook" case of a known defense mechanism against trauma. as someone who haas known trauma i can tell u the brain does some rly odd things to try and justify it or make a person able to handle it rather than shut down. SS is just one of those. dohyun didnt need to make excuses for sungho once he was free of him. but also he didnt seem to react to trauma in a way that most real life people would cuz dohyun is a fuckin freak lol and i guess that's why people try to make him into more of a victim than he ever actually was.
Welcome to an another episode of everyday we stray further from god
There’s not enough holy water for this...ಠ_ಠ
I literally forgot the breakdown i was having earlier when i thought this site shut down permanently and replaced those feelings with anxiety over this manhwa
Bro same
Lmfaoooo same