soobinsknees's Topics (260)

Ummm...if the seme actually became friends with him and stop doing things to piss off the uke

Sorry, what?? It isn't just wrong, the seme's behavior is incredibly toxic. Regardless of the matter of getting close to him, he distracted the uke for his own benefit and instead of apologizing, he chose to gaslight the uke. He's manipulating the situation to make the uke feel like he's wrong while fully aware that his financial situation leaves him dependent on grades. This is toxic, don't defend it.

All of this FALLS on the damn seme. He’s a shit person and you’re weird asf for trying to defend him and his actions. He’s overly toxic and very abusive.

I wouldn't use that argument to defend him. There are other ways the seme could use to get his attention, and we can't blame the uke for the seme not knowing what those are. If anything, I'd say the seme's parents are probably the ones to blame, rather than the uke, as the seme's most probably this way because he's clearly not been taught any different at home, and the beatings he allegedly receives have probably made his lack of judgement or self-reflection even worse. But we can't blame the uke for any of that, as he's not that much older than the seme himself, so it's unfair to expect him to be that much more perceptive than him enougn to be able to figure out the best way to tackle the seme's "issues".

Finally someone who speaks my language

I'm sorry but i laughed-

You are doing the lord's work, my friend...I'm not ready as well.