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I'm sorry..I clicked the dislike button accidentally..

its okay..happens to me all the time..XD

dont take me srsly im just saying but Im a sadist after care is a real pain in the ass... especialy after all that movement it takes a lot to clean the other's body and all:////

i know...but i mean even if the other person is an m and likes it....it doesnt change the fact that u did hurt them through the process...i think that much is sweet in itself...im sure the person who is m will not only appreciate it..but would try to do anything to make u happy if the least u do is clean up...because most bottoms in bdsm are usually seen as "sluts" or "whores" and usually are never treated like NORMAL HUMANS..its never considered a NORMAL fetish/interest... so the the least the top can do is treat their bottom like any other human being than a sex slave..know what i mean? im not saying all tops treat their bottoms like that...but uk there are always those stupid mfkers who are in it only for ENterTAinmEnt...soo u get the gist of what i mean right?(￣∇￣") i cant really put it in words..

You are completetly right but remember that these are only mangas and fictions in real world its not a bit like that... only inside the play we can treat the M like that and outside of that if we are in a relationship it will be all lovey dovey not only safe word there is a contract too that says wich plays the M doesnt like or want... for example most people dont like fire play and all...I myself prefer bondage or whip... the best form of bdsm that i have seen in a manga is either this one or in the side story of bj alex. tho this one is more realistic... and by the way sadists arent that bad too☹☹

i was speaking bout real life relationships not mangas... bottoms who are M are really discriminated against and i find that really sad/hurtful...because its just a preference and a persons likes and dislikes don't define them as a person...so its really upsetting to see bottoms being called "sluts", "whores" and "prostitutes/harlots" for the reason they are M....
there are many nice S' out there...but there are many bad ones too..
im also aware of the safe word and contracts but uk in general i dont like it if the top cannot take responsibility over their actions and brush of the whole thing with an insincere sorry...thats all i mean..
a man/woman who can take responsibility over their actions and not push away the whole thing like it wasnt their fault itself is a CULTURED human..and i appreciate them alot..
ik sadists arent bad people :)
in fact some of my friends are S'..im speaking in generall not targeted towards all S'..
im sorry if felt like i was targeting S' but i was only talking bout TOPS in general...not S'
please dont hate me ><

no i did not hate you at all!!!! but in my case its kinda reverse people think im crazy for wanting to hurt some one or im a pervert that just loves to torment.... but srsly

oh ig it depends on the pov then(￣∇￣")...
for me wanting to hurt ur partner comes from the pleasure u get from teasing them..then somehow along the way it turns into wanting to hurt them...even wanting to be hurt is quite normalized in my head for some reason..
bdsm/other fetishes and lgtbq was normal for me even tho my parents never really taught me bout them or anything...so when i realized that the majority disliked them or were against them and that homophobia existed..i was genuinely like surprised and kept asking "why tho?"
so it depends on the point of view ig..certain things are normal to people and not normal to others.. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

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