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Marriage? Honestly, I never wanna get married. Neither do I wanna have kids. Sometimes, I wonder this as well. Is something wrong with me? The society wants us to get married, like it's a mandatory step and there is no way out of it. I'm 23 now but in a couple of years I'm gonna be under pressure to get hitched. I probably will give in and my paren......   1 reply

Since I was a little girl, I never wanted to get married. I didn't understand why the others girls were so into fairytale, prince charming and wedding. But one day, I fell (literally) on a boy when I was in high school. We never dated but we became friends. After highschool ends we parted and lost contact. One day, we met again and after spending ......   2 reply

i legit want to get married tbh, but thinking about, "how will my child grow up?" "Will my husband loves me the same?" "What about our future?" Is hard, i mean, i want to marry someone who's the same loving-freakish-fun-weird human, and its a lobg way to go since im only 17 rn (in indonesia, its common to get married at 21 or older, its legal to ma......   reply

This my biggest trouble , yeah 50% of me never want , and 50% other really want. I am such loser but yeah... I hope meet someone who will make me think 100% yes.   reply

I won't. First of all, marriage means having kids. Don't misunderstand, I love kids but it's the process of having them that is an issue. Nine months of hell, contractions then giving birth. I'm a person whose pain tolerance is really low..like all time low. I don't wanna experience that. Second, I'm an aromantic person, I'm not a person who can be......   reply

I can't. I've been with the same person for 8 years; we share a business and property so even if there was no infamous wedding cake we're pretty much fucked already L O L   reply

To be honest I don't really know if I will or not (I'm 20 but have never dated) so it would sort of have to be the right person and circumstance. I think my biggest thing about marriage is that I don't think that it is needed for people to be together in that sense so in some ways the money spent on it can be used for other things. That's just my o......   1 reply

I totally agree that the pressure is there, though the way we as a society define marriage, relationships, gender is all becoming more flexible, so I think that pressure is fading and will continue to lessen over time. To some extent, "normal" is different depending on where you are as well (and what general age group you're around); you're much mo......   reply

I might not have a say in this also, since I'm still young (16 very soon 17) the thought had came to my mind before. My family like any family want me or more like expect me get married soon, like when I get to college or during college. I've talk to my best friend about it, she seems like doesn't want to get married at the time (now she's in a com......   reply

Hi! I just get married like, 5months ago, with the son of my parent's best friend whom i didn't even know until they told me that they want to arrange our marriage. Crazy, right? An arranged marriage on these era. I'm 27 this year, and romance has never been my interest ever. I've got a crush when I'm in the college, but after one date with him, I......   3 reply