Cooked And Burned Food

I assume you are Asian. Because I saw all the key words there: 'comparing daughters', 'obedient like a dog', 'lazy', 'unfilial' etc. These words also sound very familiar to me because my mum also nags at me like that and expects me to be obedient. I think in general, this is the way of upbringing by old-school Asian parents so I don't think you sho......   2 reply

First thing is first, how are you lazy? You work a 9-6 job. You have a right to be tired and wanting to rest after coming home and having a calm weekend. I'm not saying it's good to sleep all day, but you are far from lazy friend. I will say, you and I have some similarities. I just turned 27 and live with my mom, and though we have fights, she doe......   reply

It would help to know where you live, your religion, and your culture. If it's part of your religion, does this mean you and your parents are actively going to temple/church/mosque/synagogue? Is there a leader there that you can talk to regarding how badly you are treated at home? Someone who can sit your mother down and talk some sense to her o......   reply

I am not sure if I am the one to give advice but her it go’s. You should move out, do what makes you happy. As for your family they should know it’s not their life. It’s yours you can do whatever you want for your life. you can do it! And if your feeling down right now here’s a joke ( it a long one): A duck walks in the court room and th......   reply

MOVE your an adult prove them wrong that you can live by yourself and showed them you can do it I mean do you expect to live with your mom for the rest of your life you gotta go or else she just going to bring you down. And you should move right away that will make it easier you should also provide space from you and your mom.   reply

27 is old enough to have a home of your own. In fact, parents should have let you go and do your stuff, be free and all that. Your mom’s being controlling and will continue to do so if you will not leave her roof. If you can earn money on your own already then there’s really nothing holding you back except your mom and seeing that she’s toxi......   reply

hiii, ure old enough to have your own privacy and place. If u have enough savings try and get your own place (but please think about this carefully) coz u will have to do everything by yourself. Anyways im still a student but im renting a small house before(just need to get home bcs of pandemic). It's hard at first but honestly everything felt so f......   1 reply

You can! It’s the same thing as cutting off toxic friends; you can do that to your family as well. Though it may be slightly hard at first, you get used to not having them by your side. I’d say it’s best to change phone numbers, move into a quiet neighborhood or just one that seems alright and far away from them, and completely ghost them. St......   reply

I am literally 13 so I don't know if this'll help, but here we go I guess. First of all, it really doesn't make sense that that keep trying to arrange your life because you're an adult, you have the right to do whatever the heck you want and have had it for a long time. Also the fact that at 27 years old, your mother is still comparing you to other......   3 reply

Do it! Get your own place! You're old enough and you have a job! If you want to you can still help your mom with stuff from time to time. You don't need to live with her to do that. But also you're not a servant so don't let anyone guilt you into doing something you don't want to. It's YOUR life, not anyone elses. I also think you should think of......   reply