Sexual Orientation

Bi (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧   reply

Anyone can write anything. A heterosexual person can simply create something depicting lgbt individuals and it would be perfectly fine in my opinion. It just gets weird when it becomes a fetish. I don’t know what you mean by cultural appropriation though, sexuality isn’t a culture to appropriate. As for the fetishization part, simply writing a ......   1 reply

When the character is so misogynistic that their hatred leads them to turning gay. It's so strange.   reply

Im mlm and I think it's fine if heterosexual people write and consume media depicting gay sex! However its important to pay attention to how you're writing these scenes/how youre feeling while looking at these scenes so you wont cross over the lines of fetishization. I've seen this archetype so many times where the bottom in the relationship is fr......   reply

when the uke is supposed to be older than the seme (like 26-30) but somehow he looks like 15?!?!? Like wth I just want them to have their facial hair or idk small wrinkles?? Am I asking for too much?   reply

i think you should take more time into your sexuality. this sounds more of like fetishizing them and yeah i get they're more closer to girls and how they feel but that is how they per sway things and most of gay men are like that.   1 reply

Well this doesn't look too weird to me it probably just means you're more comfortable around gay guys than you are with straight guys (and honestly me too)   1 reply

Uh no. It’s not. If you like a guy because he’s gay you are fetishizing his sexuality. Find a straight/bi man that treats you well.   2 reply

Honey whatever you do, if it's in a respectful and honest way, no hurting or manipulating others, it's ok. Although you have to have present that not all gay people is the same, maybe you just had met similar people, but everybody is different and there are a lot of gay guys that are not like you describe. And is not directly conected with your s......   2 reply