Hi, I'm from a conservative country. I have a couple of homophobic friends who knows about my fudanshi-ing hobbies (I barely hide it anyway), but don't clown me and sometimes are even curious in what I'm reading. It's just about how open minded and close you and the people you are friends with, but I highly suggest to find people you click with. I......   reply
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Why the hell are people calling themselves fujoshis like it’s normal. Just say you like BL bro? Anyways before you even date someone you gotta say one liners like “im gonna read some fanfic now” or “I love reading romance stories” unless what you read is straight up porn (like all they do is fuck and there is no substance)they shouldn......   2 reply
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i dont have any expirirences but i feel like this depends on if u really like them that much and is serious bc to me u can just find someone else but yaoi is my hobby/interest and life would be super hard without. Same goes for ur partner bc someone who loves u needs to accept u for what u are. But like u dont have to nesscarliy review ur extreme p......   reply
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I'm also from a conservative country, with islam majority and boi are most of them homophobic. But fuck it, almost everyone I'm close to (or at least I trust to not trash talk me) know I read BL. I didn't try to avoid homophobic people bc sometimes it's just taught to them, not exactly coming from them. But if they wanna, I'd also enjoy a lovely (c......   2 reply
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Properly communicate with your bf about your needs. If you feel neglected and disrespected that already says a lot about your boundaries being crossed. And please, watch how people behave, watch their actions. Watch how your bf reacts to YOUR needs. A lot of people have already said it here. Regardless of cheating or anything else   reply
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I wonder where you're from, but in my case, my SO knows from the start that I love BL. I don't hide it, but I also don't show what I read because SO is uncomfy with reading that sort of thing. But at that point, it's better to be single than so be in a relationship where you have to hide a part of yourself from your SO.   reply
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I personally don't care about finding someone to share my hobby with irl. If someone around me ends up discovering this, oh well I couldn't care any less. I've got this one dude online and we both talk about anything and everything on this god damn earth with no filter, so there's that. My brother's just another me fr. As for you and the marriage ......   1 reply
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My husband is my best friend. Me reading whatever I want to read is not a deep dark secret and I'm not ashamed (mostly ╮⁠(⁠.⁠ ⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)⁠╭ ) . Did I ever tell him explicitly? No but I don't hide it either - why marry someone you have to hide from? That being said I had the freedom to look for a partner that is......   1 reply
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Well your S/O (if they are conservative) would be rude about it, probably controll you and ur BL time. My reading is not a hobby tho, its life lowkey so just keep quiet about it sadly. Better yet, find an ally because allys usually dont care about fujos   1 reply
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my boyfriend knows and sometimes i force him to watch bl shows w me lmaoo but he doesnt know about like the more extreme things   2 reply
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