Give Life Advice

I am 42 and I have only one advice: Do not idealise anything! Do not idealise love, marriage, religion, politics, your career, your children etc... We are all humans and everyone will fail at some point. I often see ppl with lofty ideals and when those ideals come crashing down, some never recover and to this day hold grudges. I see parents who pla......   2 reply

I am disabled from birth. My husband and I are going on (nearly) twenty years together and he pursued me. He doesn't have a disability.   7 reply

hey :) I'm 22 (so according to the question, I qualify as "older" :P) One thing I have always regretted is not trying to pursue my passions or interests back when it would have been easiest. It's really true that the younger you are, the easier it is to learn new skills like languages and musical instruments etc. I had really wanted to learn the pi......   reply

i'm 31 years old. There are many good answer to this question.. some of my advices are written for others persons already, so i'll say 2 that i want to add or emphasize: 1- Do what you want to do. But i'm not speaking only about dreams, i'm talking about all your choices. Dont let others provoke you; dont listen to all the advices/suggestion/etc yo......   2 reply

No matter how many advices you get, you won't understand or follow it until you experience it. You are going to fall in love, get your heart broken or you might not even experience love at all but you might screw up something else like education, fight with family, lose friends, befriend strangers easily, try new things, get scared, lost, lonely bu......   reply

All these answers seem so..instagram picture perfect to me haha, i'm 27 and can say that life just is what it is, advice? do what you want to do and what you enjoy as long as you aren't hurting others or yourself then go with it. And a moment on love...if you are under 20 (i honestly think this about anyone under 30 though) and are commiserating ab......   1 reply

Fall in Love with yourself You must love yourself before expecting someone else to love you. Know that no matter where you are, what you are experiencing, you always have a home within yourself. Everyone's journey is different, only you know where your's has come from and leads. Don't travel through life at a sprint, make sure to see the scenery on......   2 reply

For the uptight ones: Don't take everything too seriously. For the not serious enough ones: Tomorrow always comes. Don't make today's fun tomorrows pain. Yes, you have to live with the consequences of your actions so don't do something stupid that you will have to live with but don't stress too much about shit that doesn't and will not matter a ......   1 reply

Well, if you truly like or love them for their disability and who they are, then yes. From my point of view, as a person with Cerebral Palsy, I want to love and be loved as most do. For 20 years of my young life, I never known of what dating is like, much less be loved. No one has ever looked twice at me because of my wheelchair. If you only lo......   reply

It's ok to choose a safe career and have fun hobbies. Sometimes security is more valuable than an art degree. There is a lot of emphasis on chasing your dreams these days, but I think it leads to a lot more unhappiness than it does happiness. In this era, it's very possible to work on something you love on the side, and if it blossoms in to a caree......   2 reply