Being Gay

I am not gay, but I am pan. I thought that it didn't matter if it was a girl and a girl or a boy and a boy it was just the person. So when I figured out I wasn't allowed to be attracted to girls according to society I was like, what? I am really dense too so I didn't know about it till I was like 13. I do know that one of my friends (who is gay,) r......   reply

Hmm, wasn't as much complicated. I though it was normal to be attracted to females romantically and sexually until sometime in elementary school where the roles of societies started to dawn on me.. well no matter how hard i tried i simply couldn't suppress this intense longing to be involved sexually and romanticly with a girl. eventually I came in......   reply

Hi :3 I realized that I was intrested in other girls when I was 10 or something, although I already had crushes on other girls since kindergarten xD One of my friends just aked me out of the blue if I could date another girl and I was like yep :3 Just saying this conversation came up because of shounen ai Mangas. She knew that I was reading them ......   2 reply

Honestly I'm not at this point. I'll turn 17 this year and I've never fallen in love so far and I wasn't interested at all by things like that but since last year I started to notice that I looked at both girls and boys. In past, I would only look at boys. When I was younger, I suffered a lot because I was too kind so I guess it became hard for me ......   reply

I have somewhat always known that I like girls and some years ago I finally found a word for it. So pretty much the same reaction as in that manga   reply

I realized that i am bisexual when i was 17 years old. I am 18 now.   2 reply

God I'm bi and yeah I stressed so much during my teens over the fact that I found girls attractive.. I didn't know what it was I thought it was just because those girls were beautiful and then I realised I wanted to kiss them lol that was embarrassing.. Then I ended up thinking what I did in middle school (I kissed my housekeeper in her sleep when ......   reply

Well.. In my case I think it is a strange thing. But I have always been open about liking girls (born a girl too). In the end I have never consiteret myself being gay. In my mind I just liked girls, now when I got a lot older, I see myself as trans (FTM) so basicly I must be straight now, maybe always been.. I don't know.. But I do know that my fir......   1 reply

i'm still not sure if i'm straight, lesbian, bi, etc.... i do like guys but i've never been in a relationship so i don't know much about these kind of stuff (basically i get all my knowledge about romance from shoujo/yaoi). i've never seen girls in a romantic way (i did grow up without the knowledge about LGBT until middle school) and i've seen how......   1 reply