How I Encountered Yaoi Mangas

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Its your choice in all honesty, like I have said before there are good and bad in a fandom, but in the fujo one the bad seems to be more present then the good, i personally don’t think its fetishizing but others will. I would just recommend not calling yourself a fujoshi, and as long as you don’t fetishize anyone who is lgbtq+ (ie: anything tha......   reply

reading or watching bl isnt bad but being a fujoshi is. reading and watching bl doesnt make u a fujoshi. fetishizing gay guys and not being able to separate reality from fiction does make u a fujoshi. if u read and watch bl but r also respectful towards actually ppl in the lgbtq community, its fine and ur not wrong.   2 reply

Honestly who cares if it's wrong. It's not hurting anyone so just read the bl. (Just don't shove it in people's faces and you are good)   1 reply

I don't really think it's wrong, as long as you keep your opinions to yourself and don't affect anyone irl, bc I've seen many people shipping two real men making them uncomfortable, that's being toxic an disrespectful Plus if we were fetishising gay people the ones who read hentai are fetishising straight people too   1 reply

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as long as ur not fetishizing gay ppl or the lgbtqia+ community, then its ok. the only problem is the term "fujoshi" (and fudanshi) has been frowned upon by a lot of ppl especially lgbtqia+ bc for most of em it means entirely negative, so ive seen ppl not associating themselves with fujo/fudan term anymore to avoid conflict. ive seen a popular ani......   1 reply

well not me directly but kinda ig? idk if it counts but this one time this guy who DMed our school's "spotted" page, said he "liked me" & mentioned my full name, what i ride to get home & exactly where i live.   1 reply

Making an identity (calling yourself a fujoshi) out of liking gay sex as a straight person is wrong and fetishizing   3 reply