Falling Inlove

To be honest, to me love is too much work (I don't know how to say it). I'm an introverted and antisocial person so when it comes to a relationship it's too tiring to me. Why? Because you need to care about your partner lol. You need to talk to him/her, meet him, hug/kiss him, talk to him on phone, buy him present etc. And to me (an introverted and......   2 reply

i do almost avoid love kind of stuff. when most of my friends have boyfriends already, i always avoid guys who takes their interest on me by treating them 'just friends'. i feel like i've forgotten how to love since it's been a long time i've lost my interest on love. (i have love for my idols, and it's enough LOL) i think, it's not necessary for u......   reply

In my case, I'm afraid of not being in love. """I love you""" is easy to say and I often wonder if I mean it when I say it out loud. There had been times wherein I convinced myself I was in love for my own comfort. I didn't know it at the time and only realized it much later on. I'm afraid that I might be wrong when I say """I love you""" That I'......   reply

Love is pretty complicated; it bites you right at the ass when you've least expect it, that's just how it goes. As for this guy... I don't think it's love, per say, but rather, you could have an infatuation for this person -- you're simply interested, there's no helping it and there's nothing wrong with it, either. Just by the fact that you've be......   reply

Love isn't something that I'm uninterested in by any means, but rather, it's difficult for me to find someone. I'm 21; never had my first kiss, nor have I ever engaged in any sexual activities. I've never dated anyone physically, either, so I'm quite new to relationships... plus I'm not use to physical contact, I don't allow it unless I'm close t......   1 reply

I feel the same way! I'm scared of it, because I feel like I will disappoint my partner, that they will get tired of me eventually because I'm worthless and unattractive, but there's also a part of me that wants to experience love since I've never fallen in love before. Also, I have depression, a panic disorder, traumatic stress disorder and a chro......   1 reply

It used to be. I had zero interest in anything romantic when I was younger and I couldn't relate to other people's emotions because mine were stunted. I had one sided crushes that lasted far too long to be healthy and I hated that someone could make me feel so miserable without doing anything. I also have that superiority/inferiority complex thing ......   1 reply

HOLY FUCK. Are you me? Okay, exaggerations aside, I do feel what you're saying. It's actually kinda scary to know that someone has such similar experiences/personality to me. That being said, I do have a few different feelings about love I guess. Forgive me because I'm about to start rambling too (if I don't end up answering your question, I apolog......   reply

I actually had similar sentiments regarding love. I like to think that I feel that way because relationships are hard, time consuming, and include drama ( something I despise and avoid at all costs) but deep down I think it is because I don’t feel as though I am capable of forming a proper relationship - that at the end of the day isn’t really......   reply

In my opinion, I don't see the point in falling in love, with the people out there right now.A lot of people enjoy clubbing, getting drunk, have no problem cheating, or have other unappealing factors to them. Needless to say, there are still probably many people out there who are amazing in their own ways, just not appealing to the people that are ......   1 reply