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I've done both ways, broke my hymen masturbating when I was 15 and when I was on birth control, Nuvaring, I developed a cervical ulcer that would bleed with rough masturbation and sex. I wouldn't say it's normal or common but it can happen and you'll be okay. :) If you're ever really worried about it don't be afraid to talk to your doctor about it!......   reply

I guess it isn't abnormal, but if it bleeds, you might be a little bit too rough on your body. The hymen is pretty elastic so you need to take time to prep it well by adding one finger at the time. A hymen stretched well enough won't bleed. (The myth that it will bleed for every girl while loosing virginity comes from the fact that a lot of peopl......   1 reply

I am certainly not an expert on this topic, but I hope this helps. Take this time to learn and care more about yourself. Obtain new hobbies, recover old ones. Connect with family and friends. If you need support, seek it. You're in a delicate condition, so don't stress yourself by thinking about it too much. Yes, you'll still think of it no m......   reply

If you use enough friction, then yes.   3 reply

Totally normal. People get off to things they wouldn’t want to experience themselves, such as rape. You did not mess up, it’s perfectly normal. Just get used to it.   reply

If you scratched yourself, then yes, but if the bleeding is more severe then it might be an cervical ectropion. So if it’s not an one-time thing it’s better to check it with the doctor.   reply

Try looking at positioning rather than the face that they make. You can kind of read what kind of atmosphere they're having sex in and try imagine how nice it would be to be able to share this kind of moment with someone you like. Start doing this with the more fluffy kind yaoi and progress in to the more smuttier kind and even if you're into it th......   1 reply

The arousal will likely pass eventually. Just like all kinds of content (pornographic or otherwise), if you consume it regularly you'll probably get used to it and it will lose its initial punch. Do keep in mind that the smut is made to arouse, so it isn't surprising you're feeling this way. Give it time, reads some more stuff- maybe drop the smut ......   reply

Short answer, yes. If the hymen is intact (it can sometimes tear due to accident or playing sports), forcing your fingers inside can result is a minor bleeding. Sometimes it takes multiple penetration for the hymen to be affected. It's normal and totally expected. Hymen should not be associated with virginity :)   reply