Coming Out Of The Closet

but i mean why do you care? so if he was gay what would that add up to you??   reply
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You don’t. There’s literally no reason to ask, it’s none of your business. Instead ask yourself why you want to know. From what you’ve written you’re fetishising your cousin as if he’s in a manga, and it’s something you should seriously think about avoiding doing.   reply
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greet him papy pride month wllsnaja   reply
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It's human to be curious esp if it's a family member, but why are u comparing ur own adult cousin to yaoi lowkey offputting to read, I think the most u can do is maybe slide in a subtle joke abt them beign gay if ur ever in a convo with both but other than that probably mind ur own business and don't probe too much otherwise he'd have alr told u h......   1 reply
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I feel like ur putting ur nose somewhere it doesn’t belong especially since you don’t know what ur sticking ur nose into either It’s sounds really weird from ur part especially how you explained ur perspective kind of creepy actually   reply
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Just mind your own damn business   reply
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dont. its not right to assume his sexuality, straight gay or bi. if hes wants to tell you hes gay/bi or that hes dating his friend he will tell you on his own time. you seem like you would wanna be supportive, which is great, but to be supportive you should let someone make he choice to tell, rather then asking them and potentially making someone ......   reply
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I meannnnn…idk if he is let him tell you on his own time. You don’t have to go out of your way to ask and possibly make him insecure or uncomfortable (even if it’s not your intention). If he wanted to tell you he would’ve told you by now. “ idk if I'm over-observing things cuz I read a lot of yaoi” dude what? I’m guessing you're young......   reply
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Maybe just mind your own business and concentrate on school? Sorry if this sounds rude but the way you wrote this text makes it sound like you obsessed with him potentially being gay. Just ask him straight ahead if you guys are soo close, no need to think too much... ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭   1 reply
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I KNOW RHIS IS GONNA SOUND LIKE A CLICHE YAOI STORY BUT PLEASE, IT'S THE TRUTH I CANT DO ANYTHING ABT IT. Ok so I have a theory my cousin (24) is gay BUT im not sure. basically whenever i go to his house (which is almost everyday) i ALWAYS see him with his one friend, not multiple JUST one. like i see his friend so often im basically friends with him atp Me and my cousin have a big age gap but we r super close i tell him everything (including super personal stuff like strange sex/relationship stories) and he tells me stuff too but i do NOT have any bit of memory of him saying he slept with a girl or anything like that and honestly IDGAF but ive been thinking recently and realised him and his guy friend i mentioned earlier seem VERY close (theyre not childhood friends or anything but i THINK they met in uni not sure so they might have been friends for a year or two). like i know guys are normally really close and do homo shit with each other and still claim theyre straight but like this was next level. idk if im over-observing things cuz i read alot of yaoi but it seems rlly odd to me idk. Also why im even taking him being a homosexual into consideration is cuz he has NO GF!! and dont think this man is hoeless cuz goddamn this mf's roster is full and constantly increasing but he NEVER flirts back like bro he's got girls who look like the literal human embodiment of the moon in his dms yet he never shows any interest, always yapping with his bum ass best friend so like...how do i ask him if hes gay and dating his 'friend'
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