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I had FFS surgery in Korea in 2019. It wasn't perfect and my jaw is uneven and my nose looks very unnatural. It got the job done but I obsessed over the tiny imperfections and asymmetry in my jaw and that it didn't turn out the way I wanted it to. Tbh I spent the next few years in depression and w/o a job because I got extreme anxiety from being ou......   1 reply

Plastic surgery is fine, but maybe look deeper into why you want it. Are you just trying to achieve a certain aesthetic? Or do you hate your body? It's okay to not like parts of yourself and want to change them, but it's more concerning when it gets to body dysmorphia levels, and if you do have body dysmorphia, you won't feel satisfied with only on......   reply

people can modify their face as much as they like.. their face, their body, who am i to judge?   reply

To understand why people get plastic surgery, you need to understand how beauty standards are formed. Beauty has always been a competition, with the beauty standards being based on things that are 'highly valued' or difficult to achieve. This explains why a button nose is apart of the beauty standard, because it is a eurocentric feature, with this ......   reply

I've lowkey been considering labiaplasty bc I'm kinda insecure about the way mine looks. TMI but it kinda just droops out. I know it's normal but I just feel like it would disgust ppl. I'm also WOC so the color is not really conventionally attractive so I thought maybe if I could at least adjust the shape. Maybe pornographic material also altered m......   2 reply

I'm just so afraid of failure, like I'll try something, if I don't succeed at it, my brain just taunts me, I try to work harder at it to improve but it just makes me feel like I'm wasting time at things I have no talent in. I get depressed but I can't cry because I used to cry a lot as a kid and my mom got so irritated that she used to beat me. So ......   reply

No, I don't experience this anymore but I have some advice from a perspective of higher self love and acceptance. First, understand that unconditional tolerance of yourself is not unconditional love. So you cannot say you love yourself but wish to get a nose job or whatever. The truth is — (and this goes for everything!) once you accept yoursel......   reply

no? the doujinshi itself isnt inherently bad bcs shipping anime characters together isnt inherently bad either   reply

I feel you,I have extra fat in my cheeks so It looks like I still have a baby face even though im legally able to drive. For your case, id say do it just because its your nose and you don’t really grow out of your nose shape as much as face shape.   reply