Toxic Friend
I was struggling with a little devil - like girl. Her name is..... Let call her"yuun".I just friended her bcuz she's me Ex- bestie's bestie!. And bcuz we have the same interest which is anime and manga she was fun to hang with.....but she was also interested in another thing.........GAMING!!!. Look, I'm okay with gaming!, but I'm. A . absolute. INTROVERT. Which means....
BUFFY+GAMING= DISASTER
And she cuss a lot actually. She cuss at people without thinking of their feelings!. I remember at the first semester at 6th grade, that she was playing with me and a friend from my class.
At first break she'll be like "UGH. Buffy is boring and do not deserve yuun to walk with her!" With her sassy voice and push me away.
Then suddenly at second break she's like "oh~ buffy!~ you're here! Let walk together sweetie~!
She's a two faced B I thought to my self.
And the worst thing about her is SHE'S TOO OPEN FOR ANYONE.
Like. Over - honesty is like the most important word in her family dictionary or something!. She once told me that I'm not an otaku JUST BCUZ I DID NOT WATCH ALL THE RECENT ANIMES!!!.
I WAS LIKE "DUDE! IF MY EX- BESTIE WATCHBALL THE ANIME OUT THERE DOESN'T MEAN SHE'S A OTAKU! SHE'S NOW A K-POP FREAK AND ABSOLUTELY HATE EVERYTHING ABOUT JAPAN WHEN SHE WAS A COMPLETELY A WEEABOO JUST A YEAR AGO!!!!!!!"
the thing is ...... I'm still with them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NOW I WANT TO LOSE ALL CONNECTION WITH THEM!!!!!
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
EDIT 1: MY EX BESTIE HAD HATED ME SINCE I WAS 11 (6TH GRADE)
EDIT 2: ON 6TH GRADE MY EX BESTIE HAD MOVED TO A PRIVATE SCHOOL AWAY FROM US THAT'S WHY I BECAME FRIENDS WITH YUUN SINCE WE KNOWN EACH OTHER SINCE KG BUT NEVER TALKED TO EACH OTHER
EDIT 3: MY EX BESTIE IS A HARDCORE GAMER BUT SHE NEVER TOLD ME THAT SHE IS UNTIL YUUN TOLD ME. I DON'T KNOW. EVERYONE HAS SOME SECRETS
EDIT 4:
I forgot to tell something to you. The three of us loves drawing!. We draw anywhere anytime!. But in school sometime they get A LITTLE BIT harsh on me. Like when I'm happy of a drawing and show it to my EX - bestie, she'll (always) say "EWWWW" and tear the paper in half
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My mom pulled me outta school for four years, and lost all my old friends. And the first day I returned to school the little bitch who bullied me (she was what got me out of school) asked if we could play together. I bowed and said,"NO THANK YOU."; but if it was the me today I would have said,"NO THANKS LUTTLE BITCH." with a HUGE smile.
P.S.- She looks like shit now and I don't cause of my introverted tendencies! (≧∀≦)
Basically, cut the shit but do it smoothly. Do some research on how to manipulate people. I've gotten people in trouble before they even knew what hit them. I also manipulated the people in my art class to draw and create what I wanted. I got out of trouble for beating the shit out of a guy on the bus by saying,"I don't know what your talking about." (of course I was out of camera view). Just don't do bad shit with it and your all good cause of karma!
honestly I would recommend just slowly drifting away from them because that's what I did with one of my ex friends. She told me to "get a life" because she didn't like how introverted I was because she was super extroverted. When she talked to me I would just talked in a monotoned voice, kept a blank face, and only use short replies when talking. I know it sounds really cruel, but it ended up working and I don't regret it
Being an introvert as well, I somehow forced myself to know more people and found a friend group of those I can actually value... now we're great friends! I think you should go on a quest to search for good humans and then slowly leave your current group without fuss... somehow (⊙…⊙ )
It worked for me when I entered Year 7 and I was regretting the group I was in... luckily I kinda knew this girl (waved to her on the train) so I hung out with her with my other just made friend then we left the bad group completely lol. I wonder what they think, but they probably don't care as that was ages ago and no one knew each other well enough to care...
Hope you take my advice and be brave! Start with the acquaintances and discover more people through them! ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
No offence but what do you expect you became friends with her just because she was your EX bestfriends, Best friend.... Isn't that super shady and really petty on your part. You say she is two faced but you became friends with someone just to obviously make your ex bestfriend jealous didn't you do the same thing that she is doing. You know what they say you attract what you are
Don't completely burn bridges, I regret every relationship I cut off, no matter how frustrated I was at the time.