PLS ANSWER

How do you guys feel about straight men consuming shounen-ai (or even yaoi material) media and straight women consuming girls-love (or possibly yuri material) media? I feel like its not talked about enough, even though its the tiniest bit common. When I was in my strictly straight days (ew heteros) I read some GL and I actually liked it and ventured into yuri when I felt a bit risky. I also have straight male friends who dead ass read BL content. Is it weird? Is it fetishization??? HELP!!! tysm

Side note: Am I gay if I like irl tiddy thx