am i asexual?

i have a high libido, love making my partner feel great, WANT sex... but i dont find it enjoyable. im a bi woman and a top but because of endometriosis penetrative sex hurts. idk if that explains why i hate masturbating and why i dont get turned on by porn tho. sex to me is boring unless my partner is the only one enjoying themselves. i dont even find people hot or ever think of wanting to fuck them until i have a crush on them. is anyone knowledgable in this area lmaoooo i figure most of yall are lgbt which is why im askng here