TW:I tired of some bls honestly (LONG RANT SORRY)

why do bl authors romanticize rape so much??? I mean why would you put your character through falling in love with a rapist?? and some people actually pay for it. I'm tired of all the toxic relationships that somehow work because bl logic. I mean I can understand some toxic relationships that they try and work through over a span of time so it's not toxic anymore but not the ones where it just stays toxic and they stay in love. I'm tired of ukes or semes that take advantage of a drunken person INSTEAD OF HAVING FUCKING HUMAN DECENCY TO PUSH THEM AWAY BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT IN THEIR RIGHT STATE OF MIND. I'm tired of the cliche misunderstandings that I understand could happen but COMMUNICATION IS WHAT HELPS YOU GET THROUGH IT. I'm tired of seeing mental or physical diseases/disabilities not taken seriously but just there for it to be there. I'm tired of semes you don't check and see if their uke is ok throughout sex even when they know it could be their first time which is hella scary and nerve-wracking. I'm tired of the shota on this site. shota just makes you look like a pedo, I understand some kids do shit like that but please don't make it kid x adult and even without that why are you writing about children having sex??? I'm tired of the only asking for consent after you you've gotten so far in where there is no turning back. I'm tired of the incest. No matter what you say, I can't read it because that shit just doesn't sit right with me. twincest makes it worst incest not wincest. I'm tired of the kink shaming then the seme or uke has the same kink later on after saying the rudest shit about it. NOT ALL WOMEN IN BL HAVE TO BE PROBLEMATIC WHY ARE WOMEN PORTRAYED TO BE SO PROBLEMATIC IN BL??? ALSO WHY DO ALPHAS ALWYAS GET AWAY WITH RAPE IN OMEGAVERSE?? WTF I LITERALLY AVOID MOST OMEGAVERSE JUST FOR THAT!

If you read to the end thanks and if you didn't it's fine this is just small things that tick me off in yaoi. I will be on mrm searching for wholesome manga in the wholesome manga section thank you very much. If this hurts your eyes I apologize.