Anyone else notice how some users here are hating the wrong people?

Click on any BL manga and there's a chance that the manga will have non con or an age gap pairing in it. These and similar "problematic" tropes are very common in BL and part of many popular manga or anime in general. There's no need to like them but that is a fact. Now some users here believe that just because someone enjoys reading BL with these tropes it means that they endorse them in real life. This site is mostly dedicated to yaoi, a genre made by women for women. That means that most of the userbase here is women and trans men who are able to differentiate between what is real and what isn't.
The ones who are unable to do so are cis men and other amabs. They are the ones committing most crimes. Over 90 percent of all sex offenders are male. Over 90 percent of all victims are female. You should only be worried about someone liking these tropes if they are male.