What’s your opinion on seeing therapists?

When someone’s having a hard time or something, people always say go see a therapist whatnot. But do you think that by paying someone just to talk, can really ‘fix’ them? I’ve done the craziest things because of my sadness but I never wanted to see a therapist. What good would that do? Why should I ‘come to terms’ with the painful feelings I’m feeling? It’s my circumstances that makes me so miserable. Why should I change myself? It’s my situation that needs to change not fucking me. I never caused any of this shit. It’s not my fault. I don’t want to accept shit I never caused. I’ll be just a loser in life forced to modify my painful feelings with petty things if I talk to a ‘professional’ listener aka therapist. I’ve been stubborn like this for years and now I only feel emptiness and sadness now. Life still sucks. I don’t want to modify myself I want to modify my situation. Most people’s life get better but mine doesn’t. Idk what to expect from people whose life gets better on this matter. Does it even work in a practical way? Does it bring any change to your shitty life?