College friend group is breaking up and I don't know what to do.
I spoke too soon in the "things I did". essentially two people are breaking up and it's going horribly. I don't know who to believe as I don't know the full story, and I don't want to choose a side because they have both been wonderful people, but I don't want to be supporting a bad person. However, I don't even know who's in the wrong. This friend group has been chipping away since the beginning of this year and I'm feeling the dread that it's not going to last. I know it's not my job to fix everything but I don't want this group to die.
I think you are getting obsessed with whether or not you are supporting the wrong person. That doesn't matter. You don't know what is going on and if something changes you can always explain. Even then, this shouldn't matter to you, since they are your friends, they will make mistakes. And if being afraid of being "wrong" is making it so that you d...... 1 reply
I've never been in your shoes specifically, but I have been THAT couple that broke up in a friend group. We were in the same friend group since freshman year, and we started as close friends before deciding to date in our sophomore year. We broke up after dating for over a year and a half. I was also scared about how this could impact our friend gr...... reply
girl honestly irish goodbye the friendship like its college...most friendships in the beginning of the year simmer out. it's best to leave and be alone for a minute and if ur like in clubs or have hobbies u do, u might find better friends in there. 1 reply
I understand the feeling but unless all your other people in your group put in effort to stay connected it’s not going to work and you’re just giving yourself extra sad.
Sometimes that’s just how groups/people are. People just migrate apart. You personally don’t need to lose those relationships and that’s more realistic to manage.
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Honestly I would back away. This type of things happen and friend groups fall apart easily. you can't bear it on your shoulders, if the dread is messing with you this much is better to leave the situation entirely
Also is college, im sure you'll find new people to be friends with reply