Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?
Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?
It’s normal to do it (and normal to not do it) Imagining isn’t cheating. If you’re too insecure about them imagining doing something with someone else, you need to learn some trust and work on your self esteem reply
