I need to calm tf down omg
Tell me yall it’s gonna be okay im overreacting hahah When I don’t get a text from “x” amount of time I will freak tf out usually like (10 hours) but I need to calm down because theyre busy but I can’t AHHH makes me anxious af bec
We talk everyday consistently for 5 years and longest we haven’t talked was a weekend because we had a fight..lol ik they talk to me less and less but idk if it’s because they don’t want to talk to me or they’re just busy or both :’)
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Mee but tbh we text like we're in different timezones. (Bestie lives up the street) but sometimes the way a friendship looks like will change with time. I always believe that the love is still there, even if the communication looks different.
I can go from being really good at texting someone back and then all of a sudden i cant for a while just because of anxiety or shame or whatever. There's so many reasons why they could be not texting back that don't include them getting hurt or hating you. Especially a 5 year relationship. They're NOT ignoring you because they hate you. I understand the anxiety though I get the same way. I would recommend some grounding exercises (you can find them online) and maybe some distracting yourself with things you love. You are so loved and lovable.