Is losing your v card worth the hype?

I’ve seen plenty of people on social media saying that losing their v card isn’t worth the hype. Is it really something that we should look forward to?? On TikTok especially, there are women who say how it wasn’t enjoyable for them. Or how sex is only about pleasing men. And as a 21 year old virgin, I’m very curious on whether I should be concerned about this. So for all my V card losers. Was your experience worth it?? Do you wish you could take it back??
(Please I need answers, I feel so behind in life. I haven’t even had my first actual kiss yet) And perspectives from women would be highly appreciated !!