I miss feeling wanted in a friendgroup

Another depressing thing wow yay, I just honestly dont know what to do anymore. I know this is all probably in my head but I cant shake this feeling. I dont think they hate me I just think im an afterthought. Honestly if I just stopped showing up nobody really care. Im stuck feeling awful and like i have no true friends then I get a crumb of attention, a dm or just someone replying to my message and I feel like none of what I felt was true then I start feeling sad again and it fucking repeats.
I try to make a joke and they dont even let me finish and brush me off. I try to include myself and it just doesn't work, I feel like I make things awkward. Ive never felt more shame from being myself before. I just dont feel like im the same kind of human being as these people and I dont like it. I feel like there's something wrong with me. I dont even know what im looking for by posting this but I just need someone atleast to know that im feeling this way. I have no one who I can tell this to personally without feeling like im burdening them with my feelings.

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White.Gravvy 4 hours

How old are you? I felt this way majority of my school life. After you get out of college and have a job it gets better. For some reason work friends feel more genuine. Or you just get too tired to even care about friends. Get comfortable being with yourself more. You should always be your own best friend (as sad as that sounds) also everyone is so...... 1 reply

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Angie 3 hours

hey girl! honestly im in the same boat as you, but listen to me when I say this but, you shouldn't blame yourself because those 'friends' don't see you as a close friend or a needed friend. It their own fault for being like this. My own friends started treating me this way when they realise that I couldn't hang out with them cause I had strict pare...... reply

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ghostie 4 hours

That really sounds so fkin sad omg they don't deserve you girl. I've had that type of friends before so i know how that feels.Maybe try explaining how u feel about it and make them understand and if they still don't give a shii then leave them and try to make some new friends if possible. Ik it's easier said than done but you'll just hurt urself f...... reply

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chaotic hoe 4 hours

hey, i mean, i dont really know what i can say to make your situation better or make you feel better but the bottom line is you shouldn't be around people that make you feel so terrible and it's better off being alone. taking time making meaningful connections with other people, and regulating your feelings better; will help you out so much and wil...... 1 reply

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bruhmoment 3 hours

Is there any one friend in the group u might feel is more understanding and cares more maybe talk with one of them about it? but if not tbh try to slowly separate urself from them obviously it can be hard if u don’t have friends outside of them so maybe change ur mindset from feeling like ur burdening them with ur feelings into “I just keep the...... reply

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