What should i do ?
i am a 18 years old girl. Some time ago, i was very curious about a baking course i saw online and decided to check it out and signed up with my number. About a week ago, i got the call from the councellor and we kinda hit it off? After chatting about the course a little, our conversation drifted to talking about ourselves and other stuff. He then called me from his personel number and we talked for like 7 hours. It was some of the most fun i've had talking with somebody in a purely platonic way. As you can guess from the website we are on, i am not shy about my interests and hobbies, so i kinda started talking about manga, boy's love and stuff 'cause i really don't wanna befriend a bigot, and he was surprisingly chill about it. But after that i kinda regretted talking about it cause it is pretty taboo topic where i live. At one point he kinda straight up asked me if i watch p*rn? and i felt a bit scared you know. I hadn't drifted the convo in that territory really, i was strictly "PG" you can say. We ended our call a while after but all in all, it was genuinely pretty nice but now i am conflicted; should i be freinds with him or no? what do you guys think i should do?
P.S: He is 25 years old and yes i obvi told him my age. He asked for my pohoto and i sent him a group photo. He hasn't contacted me since.
who tf asks someone in a professional setting wether they watch porn? also advise don’t pursue a friendship with him
don’t send more photos or personal info
if he contacts you keep replies short or ignore trust your gut that uneasy feeling matters cause that's already a sign that you are BOTHERED AND FYI a safe person wouldn’t make you uncomf......
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15 04,2026