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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
Mama_Agnus 26 days
Being completely empathetic, I understand how tough this must be for you and the best advice I can give you is that your standard of good is subjective since I assume you’re somewhat of a novice, so be easy on yourself. Take merit in your own writing and hone your own skills. And know that it’s okay to maybe even learn from your friend if you ......   reply
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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
Hikyooeon 26 days
I'm not gonna compare the two of you or say yours could be better, I'm saying don't quit. Jealousy is normal and what you feel is totally valid, however you shouldn't let this pull you down. You are still good at what you do, you can still write and be unique in your OWN way. Don't compare yourself to them because you two aren't the same, try to pu......   reply
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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
pebbles 26 days
just because someone's story is getting more attention doesn't mean they're a better writer than you. readers naturally drift towards tropes and cliches they're familiar with. romantasy's one of the most popular, best selling genres today. doesn't mean they're the best written. if you truly think they're better at writing, then analyze why. are the......   reply
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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
Bear 26 days
I feel you. I myself have a fear of feeling like this someday. It's a struggle. You genuinely love to help and teach but dread the idea of them getting better than you at the same time. I have come to make peace with it for the most part. I tell myself that I have nothing to feel insecure about, since them being good at the task shows that I was a ......   reply
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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
Thime 26 days
My teacher sat the “class clown” next to me so I could tutor him. Younger me took this very seriously. I got a 92 on am exam and was slightly frustrated but all together was accepting. I look over to my protege to see my results and he had a 98. I got up and walked away   reply
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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
Lazy_Potato 26 days
Girl you're literally living my life. I had a friend who was like that as well. Even though I had been writing for longer, theirs kept getting recognised in lieu of me, worse part is that the ones that got recognition were based on the exact same themes which they "borrowed" from me. Yeah I was really pissed off, I just couldn't see how they were b......   1 reply
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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
sasaki haise apologist 26 days
Ik it’s very difficult to stop comparisons and the feelings of insecurity- I’ve been there before way too many times. And as someone that’s went through your situation, let me tell you: comparison is indeed the thief of joy. You are reaching a point where this feeling takes away the joy from a hobby that you’ve enjoyed for quite a while- ......   reply
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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
teach me how to dougie 26 days
it's ok to feel that way. sometimes, people can be more good in performing the things that you taught them BUT always remember that if YOU didn't TEACH them, they will never reach that stage. believe in your own potential, not everyone can do what you can do. DON'T BE A QUITTER!!! FIGHTING!!╰⁠(⁠*⁠´⁠︶⁠`⁠*⁠)⁠╯   reply
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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
lemonade 26 days
wow real life "maybe meant to be" but only the 2 girl friends   1 reply
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Is it bad that I feel jealous of a friend I taught how to write? (vent) [Answer]
ieatcabbage 26 days
Tysm everyone for the words and the different perspectives, I really needed to hear some of this XD Tbh, I still feel a bit jealous about the recognition and creativity part (can't lie, I'm only human), but reading yall comments definitely made me feel less insecure, I’m glad I shared this here (..◜ᴗ◝..)   reply
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