Are we on two different sites!? The seme's get all the love and ukes get hated on!?
You ever hear of "uke supremacy"!? It's like in Some people's eyes, ukes can do no wrong! The seme's get labeled rapists and abusers all the time.
I've read stories where the uke gets drunk and crawls into the seme's bed and the seme tries to do the right thing ......
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