Misogyny on Mangago

I’m a cis girl who is a huge fujoshi and i love reading the comments on each yaoi i read bc i like the conversations and jokes that can be made amongst people like myself, but i find that in a lot of yaois with female side characters who are portrayed as villains weird me out.
Maybe im that one friend that too woke, but i really hate seeing girl characters be villainized in yaoi, especially bc i feel like a lot of yaoi is written by other women. I also get really upset with the comments on some yaois bc users are not afraid to call these FICTIONAL women bitches and whores and give them death threats.
I know it’s really not that deep but it really does bother me, especially when the girl is like a high schooler like yall need to chill LOL…
but anyways, anyone else feel this way?