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There’s a huge difference between reading BL and enjoying it, and talking in a fetishising way. I don’t believe simply reading BL is fetishising gay men, even though some manga is very fetishising, not all of it is, and the way you choose to discuss it shows whether you’re reading it to fetishise or not, at least it does in my opinion. An ex......   1 reply

Hope you don’t mind advice, but you might get on better if you tell people what it is and not just post the link. Right now this looks like spam, not as many people are going to click   1 reply

I can recognise actors in whatever hair and make-up they have, which usually spoils things for me tbh   1 reply

It’s wild to me that people are assuming it’s a man and/or they don’t know each other already Also she never said it’s a FIRST date. You’re all paranoid   3 reply

Don’t judge yourself against people’s lists, for example I mark stuff as read if I’ve tried reading it and didn’t like it, or I’ve read all the available chapters. It’s not a competition ️   1 reply

Because I’m here to read manga, and the comments section is a hellscape   1 reply

Is this really not targeted cause I feel like I know the exact manhwa you mean and I totally agree!   reply

It’s normal to do it (and normal to not do it) Imagining isn’t cheating. If you’re too insecure about them imagining doing something with someone else, you need to learn some trust and work on your self esteem   reply

Oh cool I hadn’t heard of this, thanks for the heads up! Apparently it’s the people who wrote Wolf Among Us which was excellent   reply

Congrats this was my first ever RR   1 reply

I really wouldn’t recommend a manhua/manhwa to a newbie tbh - go for a one volume manga or they’ll probably feel overwhelmed. I also wouldn’t give a newbie a yaoi, personally, I’d stick to a BL. It really depends what they want to read it for, are they after romance or sex scenes? Doukyuusei is a classic, and is one volume but has further ......   reply

If your body is saying you’re hungry, it’s because you’re only eating once a day. Eat little and often, and your body won’t be starving and asking you to eat. It’s a survival instinct, if the body thinks it’s being starved, it sends out a hormone to tell you to eat, and it’ll send more because it thinks there isn’t enough food avail......   reply

Guiding Hazard, Senshun Kansoku, Hana and Gin, until recently Sono Bisque Doll, oh and any time I see a new Tobi Washio come out.   reply

Telling your brother seems the right thing to do, because it’s best to tell someone in case things get unmanageable for you. I’m sure a lot of us here have been where you are (I know I have) and sharing it with someone, even on here, is the big first step. I’m glad you are aware of it yourself cause that means you want it to change, and m......   reply

Oh look, it’s the monthly panic this site will be taken down.   reply