Desgod's answer page 5 (106)

I understand the feeling but unless all your other people in your group put in effort to stay connected it’s not going to work and you’re just giving yourself extra sad. Sometimes that’s just how groups/people are. People just migrate apart. You personally don’t need to lose those relationships and that’s more realistic to manage. As ......   reply

Like the ick? You’re going to have to be more specific here. Because it’s natural to not be attracted to everyone that flirts with you? Like because the vibes are off or like it’s an old guy that really should know better (NO GARY just because my hair was dyed silver at the time doesn’t mean you’re not like 15 years older than me!)   1 reply

Sorry I’d share but finding and posting pictures on here is so ass. Maybe because I’m on mobile but really the image posting system here is literally one the worst I’ve seen. Ugh also apologies for venting off topicccccc~ please forgive meeeeeee~   reply

Ummmmmm it really depends on how this fantasy came up? And how it was communicated. There’s a big difference between having stray thoughts that something would be hot and actively planning it out and doing it in your mind. Like I’m assuming the husband is including the wife in the threesome fantasy? Or he put it out there that he just wan......   reply

I think raping a rapist would be like poisoning someone by poisoning yourself first. Or like in order to place a curse both of you have to be cursed. Because I think the act of raping someone is damaging to the perpetrator as well. And I’m not saying this as a bid for sympathy for them at all. I’m saying committing this act damages your hum......   reply

Don’t fw it. Never have probably never will. I can’t stand people that say one thing, act another, but in reality mean something completely different than both. I just don’t understand where the hell it came from? I mean specifically why it became a thing in the first place? (Please don’t give me a TED talk on the actual origins, if I c......   reply

I think there comes a point in almost every child’s life where they start realizing that their parents are ‘people’. As in, that they have flaws and make mistakes just like everyone else, and that’s normal. With your situation I first wanna say one thing. NO ONE, ABSOLUTELY NO ONE, has the right to put their hands on you in anger or otherw......   reply

We’re no strangers to love.   1 reply

Before I fell asleep this ran through my head and it was so clear and random that I wrote it down half-asleep. The Road The Road is blocked The Path The Path is gone The Line The Line is cut The Way There is no Way but Through ╮(￣▽￣)╭ I dunno where I read that to pop up like it did. It might be cos I ate a fortune cookie before han......   1 reply

Awe damn no one has one yet? I wanna know if there even are any.   2 reply

It….really depends on how this convo went down. Because personally I’d play the ‘did you know this was a thing!?’ card. Like when you stumble onto a weird niche on the webs and can’t not ask someone else about it. Or like when you’re in middle school and your friends tell each other about fake STIs’ in hopes they’ll Google fu it and......   reply

I do think therapy would be a great choice for your Mom. Kinda sounds necessary in fact. A death usually comes with some kinda trauma but it really sounds like she might be experiencing some PTSD about it. I know you said you’ve tried talking to her but you didn’t say what those conversations entailed. But I do think you should continue t......   1 reply

1. DONT BE ALONE WITH THIS GUY 2. It doesn’t matter if he’s the saint of rainbows & puppies. His feelings aren’t more important than yours or your SAFETY. 3. He makes you uncomfortable. Trust that. You have the right to feel that way. There is a REASON you feel that way. 4. The things he’s talking to you about are SUPER inappropriate. You�......   reply

How old are these people?! That’s beyond pathetic behavior for grown adults that are supposed to be examples for you in your collective field of work. For me personally, they could be as direct or indirect as they like but they wouldn’t be getting any money from me. Jeez acting like grade schoolers stealing other kids lunch money.   2 reply

PREACH. Also stop commenting on them just to tell them it’s weird ffs people. I don’t care if you want to be gross or figure out the mysteries of the human body or whatever on your own. I’m stuck at home sick today. I don’t wanna have to see it ALL DAY jc.   2 reply