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saw ereri fanart at age 10 & i was like :O !!!!! two men??? and then i saw yuri on ice & i was like More Gay Men????? and then i realized i was some flavor of gay that same yr and then just kept reading BL hip hip hooray   reply

this would be really cool actually like omegaverse is already pretty trans when you think abt it and the established identity and social norms are diff too so how would transgender identities work? bc you can go two ways: trans-ing your primary gender and trans-ing your secondary gender. a lot of secondary gender norms are repackaged or overlapping......   reply

i mean they probably don't... self harm isn't something you can just do for funsies; i've been diagnosed w depression for yrs and have had urges to self harm before that i never went through with bc my aversion to physical pain was stronger than my depression. it's also unlikely that the reason is always because of a rejection. that could be a cove......   1 reply

if party A is a minor then no. in real life i think even being 19-20 is a little iffy but i wouldn't say no as a hard rule because some people have their heads screwed on well. this is bc the differences in maturity and social position are what matter more than just the Literal Numerical Age Difference between them: large age gap relationships (tha......   1 reply

hell yeah dawg glad you had a decent first sem at college :D election shit real as hell... im in a blue state so it wasn't as bad but still p hectic at my college hope your insurance covers your bj hospital bills LMFAO   reply

do you take epubs instead fellow scummie   1 reply

everyone financially investing in generative and chatbot AI is already soulless so i think we'll be fine   1 reply

wow old ass question... like. almost everyone i know is reading bl & yaoi w me lmfao even cis men!! we're all queer and half of us are trans and most of us aren't even into men so we're vibing :) i wake up to see the gc talking abt how a man should get pregnant and i jump in to drop the suggestion that he should transition into a woman and get with......   reply

OOOOOH FUCK how do i not rec my whole fucking bookshelf okay so: sword of kaigen by m.l. wang, jing wei qing shang by please don't laugh, i who have never known men by jacqueline harpman, lie huo jiao chou by priest, & the vegetarian by han kang. genres, in order: high fantasy/sci-fi, historical fiction gl, feminist dystopian literary fic, urban f......   1 reply

imo having anxiety or other mental disorders/illnesses already disqualifies me from being neurotypical so like yeah they're kinda right lol. from a practical standpoint i'm not functioning like someone with a Typical brain therefore i'm not neurotypical even if im not exactly neurodivergent. if im talking to someone who's ND then i'd maybe clarify ......   reply

1440 first try 720 on both. 1100 is good for most public unis but might lag you in competitive programs or more selective unis. i'd say it's good for a personal meter bc you beat 61% of test takers & that's more than half but i also say don't take it too seriously because it's not the best way to gauge your intelligence anyways   reply

raised catholic currently atheist but reading up on buddhist philosophies atm! lots of spiritual/religious teachings can be applied in secular contexts so i like to read abt them but i don't think i can ever practice or believe in any spirituality beliefs again lol...   reply

okay i'm aromantic so uh. don't. um. don't take this response too seriously. i had to ask my allo friends for this and it's still being filtered through my aro brain -> on how it feels; if you can imagine them getting a botched haircut and still like them then that's likely love or at least stronger and deeper feelings than a crush. you overthink......   reply

you're never completely safe while sailing the seas but torrenting from nyaa.si works p well. download qbittorrent or a mac equivalent and a vpn of your choice (tho i'd rec protonvpn or windscribe vpn as good free And paid vpn options) and go ham. if you're too paranoid abt it and would really prefer direct downloads then i'd rec animetosho.org or......   reply

lowke these are just ten of my top ranked in no particular order because 1) i cannot do that to them and 2) i wanted to include a variety of genres :3 but here: 1. Witch Hat Atelier 2. Love Bullet 3. Apothecary Diaries 4. JK Haru is a Sex Worker in Another World 5. Qiang Jin Jiu (more of a rec for the novel than the manhua bc the manhua's only go......   reply

anything my brother makes (which will usually be Really Good Egg Dishes or various curries), tea from my friends, thịt kho trứng   reply

glad your self esteem has improved :D !! be proud of yourself   reply

do you really want to be told that it's over for you? you sound like you've been burnt out for a while and it's been affecting your performance which is affecting your self esteem. and that's fair; three years is a long time to not see the results you want. but you had around 10-11 years of schooling prior that went well so this isn't a permanent s......   reply

antidepressants by bbno$ and aint nothin' like a funky beat by hideki naganuma some lighthearted tunes for you dawg hope you're feeling better!!!   reply