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Biggest yuri ick is there are sooo many that feature "women" who look like children, like they draw them chibi style and I guess you could still read it for the plot but when the sex happens I just... no. Also hate when they act super naive about sex. No one lives under a rock like that unless you came from an ultra conservative or religious famil......   1 reply

Nah. As bad as many nations like to wave their dicks around they also all know that war severely weakens a country, it disrupts trade, is resource intensive, people die, morale lowers making society less productive, it can become a huge mess and cause you to lose allies, etc. It is better for everyone involved to stay peaceful and war is typically ......   2 reply

You mentioned manga, there are people with rape kinks and rape can be romanticized in fiction, but that's entirely different from in real life. In real life, if it is rape, they are not going to enjoy it. Like even when I say rape kinks, that's consensual with the "rape" being planned out, it's role-playing, it's not real rape. Real rape is traumat......   1 reply

Originally the canon was that everyone in the universe had dicks even the women regardless of secondary gender even, but not all yuri artists give them dicks. At least they didn't in "She became my bride after the rain".   reply

Sorry to hear. I've read your uploads plenty of times and appreciated them. How the hell do they cope with cliffhangers that happen regularly, even in full chapters? Do they complain that the author is then shit? Some people need to work on their delayed gratification. Also their needing to reload I don't think is even a problem with you, Mangago h......   reply

S&M. No consent, no safe words, no after care. It's often portrayed as being done by an asshole sadist who doesn't give a shit and only cares about getting their own rocks off, and then the masochist either eventually enjoys it or is just horrified or seems just "ok" with it. Also a lot of lack of research on proper procedure like you hold forearms......   2 reply

Despite being a nympho I was a virgin until I was 20 years old. I have severe anxiety, it hit me when I was 12 and virtually crippled me (although I was also fearful before then, it wasn't to the extent that puberty amplified it), I feared men above everything else for many reasons but I think my most prominent fear was that I would be raped all th......   reply

Doesn't sound good fam. It's still better than "ew, no" but worse than "idk" or "maybe". You could still confess just to get it out of your system and process the rejection/move on but I don't have high hopes sorry   reply

I think they can, but the most important thing is they have to want to change and they need to communicate to you what exactly they are going to do to ensure it does not happen again. "Sorry" does not cut it. Personally I would want them to go to therapy, I might go with them and make it a couples thing, to find out exactly why they feel the need t......   reply

A Crown of Thorns. Incest (though not blood related, seme calls him "dad" and it just.... yuck), has some talk about gore, I remember there being another thing that I was just not mentally prepared for but I forgot. I read it for morbid curiosity and because the art is hot. Boss You've Worked Hard, from the same author. So much to unpack with that......   2 reply

Personally, I hate it, even though I am married. I had to get married in order to recieve my husband's medical benefits because I take prescription medication (MERUCAAAAA), if it weren't for that we wouldn't have gotten married. We don't wear rings, we just went to the courthouse wearing the nicest things we already owned, because shelling out thou......   reply

I love this question because yaoi has seriously changed SO MUCH. Honestly don't feel it influenced me at all. The primary reason I started reading yaoi/bl more was because I found regular romance/shoujo so unrealistic that it was impacting my mental health and making me really depressed, because men like that don't exist irl (remember ladies, the......   reply

You could blame it on so many things honestly, like even porn being so much better and having so much more variety and sex toys also having the same innovation. At the end of the day tho it's just that the world sucks, no one's making enough money, everyone's working too much, no one can afford a proper place to live, and so on and so forth. That ......   reply

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/my_life_in_two_panels/   2 reply

Eyes/staring. I see it most commonly with S&M play where the sadist watches the masochist masturbate, but I enjoy any kind of staring into the eyes or watching the other enjoy pleasure. Also in the manga "Lie Cry Like" they use eyes and looks to illustrate the sexual tension and like ughhhh yesss they get me.   1 reply

Continuing to live. My life hasn't been great and I've been struggling a lot with my mental health. Sometimes just surviving is enough and that's okay.   reply

It is definitely gross, and it would be popular online because they can't get off on that stuff in real life without, hopefully, being thrown in jail. There's a lot that are also like "Oh they're 18 but they LOOK like they're 8" to try and tip toe around the child porn aspect, but that still really doesn't fly with me. I'm actually more okay with r......   reply

Nope. Former CNA here, we clean your genitals for you when you're in a coma and also when you'll be too old to take care of them yourself.   reply