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I understand because in BL they're the same gender and the problems of women IRL don't exist..so even in an abusive relationship it's not because of misogyny and the victim isn't female, so it feels less triggering, whereas most victims of r*pe and sexual harassment irl are women. Makes it a lot more triggering to read straight stuff, and makes BL ......   1 reply

Take a break from these sorts of comics. Smut comics/porn are known to have this effect and it happens to a lot of people. Some people call it "porn toxicity" The good thing is after a while of not looking at them this effect will probably be reversed   reply

I think it's up to you if you want to tell him or anyone else so yes it's normal. If you trust him you would feel comfortable telling him though, even if you trust him it's still perfectly fine not to tell him   reply