i’m convinced y’all haven’t been in situations where you ask people to do something ...

bet u have a boring sex life or ur either a virgin
its normal telling ur partner to go slow but they still go hard. thats ho sex works

Hahahaha pretty much

There aint no thing like that in hardcore yaoi

Yass, the consent is all the time not only in the beginning CONSENT

hi! im really curious please dont take my comment the wrong way i just really want to know but isnt that considered as rape? :(, please im just asking question dont bully me

no. you already gave consent to put it in. hes just dont want to make sex boring by going slow so hes going faster, thats how hardcore sex goes. if u didnt like it say it at the end of sex.
rape is going against ur will completely

Maybe yes :c idk, we need to see how will he react:c I feel so bad omg

thats not how rape works

How can you say "hardcore sex"? IT WAS HIS FIRST TIME, the consent is all the moment not only in the beginning wtf

I mean...he is pretty much the type of character who gets too emerged into pleasuring himself during sex and loses sense of the other party's comfort

it has nothing to do with having a boring sex life or being a virgin wanting your partner to listen to u isnt a bad thing. especially when it's your first time. first times can be very painful so why wouldnt he just listen to him and go slower

oh, but what if i gave my consent at the beginning and then i didnt like how its going in the middle and told them to stop but they kept going? is that still considered as making sex awesome? sorry im a virg.... :( i dont really know but i think its scary, sorry for my bad english T-T

well true, but it depends on the person who ur having sex with as @sugakookie said he is pretty much the character who gets too emerged into pleasuring himself during sex and loses sense of the other party's comfort doesnt matter if it was ur first or not
besides if u didnt like it u can always tell ur partner at the end!

different people do different things ...you sound like a victim tbh , if you and your partner didn’t establish that going slow means going fast then going slow means SLOW and it was his first time this has nothing to do w a boring sex

NO ITS NOT, don't listen to him/her. That's rape culture everything is about consent. He/Her is just a fujoshi who think that yaoi is only rape.

here is a tip if u really didnt like it how he didnt listen 2 u in the middle try hitting him he will stop. but if u liked how he didnt slow down thn ur obv also enjoying the sex.

I wouldn’t call it "rape", but I'd feel really hurt if the person I love didn’t care about my comfort or wouldn't listen to my requests during sex, specially if it's my first time. Like I'd be scared shit.

Rape is basically forcing yourself on someone who's not willing to have sex you. If the person properly consented to have sex with you and then tells you to stop in the middle of it but you don't, that's also rape. Cause consent can change, it's not only a "beginning thing". The whole process of sex should be consensual. It can happen that you decided to have sex with someone but then you tell him to stop (it can be cause of nervousness or physical uncomfort or just a change of mind), he most definitely should stop. Otherwise that's rape.

well we all have diffrent taste in sex, so i kinda agree with u

as someone that likes rougher sex, sometimes it just hurts and your partner needs to slow down because it could seriously hurt your insides, if you were actually educated about sex or even had enough sex you would know this, so shut the fuck up child

u are very very sensitive. not everyone will listen to you when u say "go slow" it really depends on who ur fucking, if you didnt like it just say it no need to endure it
as i said he already gave consent so its not rape anymore hes just stubborn so he didnt listen, and it normal for ur partner to go fast even if its ur first AGAIN if u didnt like it just say it, he not listening hitt him so he will stop ( im talking real life things)