
well true, but it depends on the person who ur having sex with as @sugakookie said he is pretty much the character who gets too emerged into pleasuring himself during sex and loses sense of the other party's comfort doesnt matter if it was ur first or not
besides if u didnt like it u can always tell ur partner at the end!

I wouldn’t call it "rape", but I'd feel really hurt if the person I love didn’t care about my comfort or wouldn't listen to my requests during sex, specially if it's my first time. Like I'd be scared shit.
Rape is basically forcing yourself on someone who's not willing to have sex you. If the person properly consented to have sex with you and then tells you to stop in the middle of it but you don't, that's also rape. Cause consent can change, it's not only a "beginning thing". The whole process of sex should be consensual. It can happen that you decided to have sex with someone but then you tell him to stop (it can be cause of nervousness or physical uncomfort or just a change of mind), he most definitely should stop. Otherwise that's rape.

u are very very sensitive. not everyone will listen to you when u say "go slow" it really depends on who ur fucking, if you didnt like it just say it no need to endure it
as i said he already gave consent so its not rape anymore hes just stubborn so he didnt listen, and it normal for ur partner to go fast even if its ur first AGAIN if u didnt like it just say it, he not listening hitt him so he will stop ( im talking real life things)
i’m convinced y’all haven’t been in situations where you ask people to do something and they didn’t respect you. if he said slow down he should’ve slowed down , him going faster was not hot. edit: just by the replies i can tell who’s a child or not , and who probably let someone sexually assault or rape them and they didn’t know and that’s why half of y’all so defensive when i said he should’ve listened to him no matter what