
Again, everyone is different. Some people need more time to heal and needing more time to heal doesn’t deem someone as weak. True that he does now have a baby to look after but again, people do need their own time once in a a while whether it be to relax, collect their thoughts, or just personal self time. It’s not selfish to have time dedicated to yourself and it’s actually recommended to relieve stress.

Like I said in the scenario, you're 10, forced to have a kid because of the people around you. You cannot legally make that decision due to your age. But because it's your kid, you cannot have your own childhood and are forced to make sure the kid leads a good one THAT YOU CANNOT HAVE. You make it sound easy to walk away.

shit dawg you're almost in your 30's and you talk like that, IM ACTUALLY LAUGHING SM THIS IS SO DAMN EMBARRASSING FOR YOU. your comment shows your lack of perspective, and outlook in life. and i seriously thought you were like a 15 year old talking. the fact you're taking your time to reply to all these comments, and your over-inflated ego of thinking that you're right and everyone against you is ignorant. what a dumbass, get a life dude. this is rlly sad for you, calling yourself "mature" but spouting a bunch of shit that contradicts that statement, and thinking stating your age would make things better. I JUST MAKES YOU LOOK A LOT MORE STUPID.

I'm not saying what you're saying is wrong. But people can't possibly think so far ahead into the future. Life takes you wherever. Things happen where you least expect it to happen.
Look, I'm seriously just trying to wrap my head around the opposing viewpoints. My stance is that it's fine to step back and think about yourself. Because when you do, you can become stronger and more mentally capable. In that position, you can better take care of your kid. But if you disallow yourself to mull over your past and process the events, you can keep darker emotions hidden until it breaks out. You can hurt your kid even worse. I find that there's more strength in overcoming your trauma, whatever it may be, than never giving yourself the chance to. In this case, we'll have to see what Hyesung will do in the next couple of chapters.

@Feh, I do agree with what you just said about taking some time for yourself and be overall a better person. But I just can’t see myself to sympathize with him anymore. He’s unconsciously doing the same thing his parents did to him when he was young, and that is not okay. What he’s doing may not be as worse as his parents did, it’s still the same scar he’s carving onto Byul.

Just because he didn’t shout at Byul or wtvr doesn’t make it okay or an excusable behavior. Besides, even if he do have some caretakers, it’s still different from a mother. It sounds like some wattpad shit (when a badboy gets a bad experience from a relationship and does the same thing he experienced to a girl who loves him fr) while I do understand where he is coming from, it’s still not okay. Also, just because I called out his behavior I suddenly lack empathy and human decency? How about you develop some empathy and human decency for the kid?
Its not Byuls fault. He really is a bad parent. So much he gets depressed over his parents, yet he is being a bad parent too!!ヽ(`Д´)ノ
If you gonna spout your fairytale sympathy on depressed people crap, dont bother (: