I dont care what he's going through anymore...

Mio March 5, 2021 12:36 am

Its not Byuls fault. He really is a bad parent. So much he gets depressed over his parents, yet he is being a bad parent too!!ヽ(`Д´)ノ

If you gonna spout your fairytale sympathy on depressed people crap, dont bother (:

Responses
    Dr. LadySloth March 5, 2021 3:57 am

    Hmmm... This thread is interesting..

    Lemme just say this... Everyone's different on how they would cope up to their situation..

    Let's just say.. Hye-sung is an abandoned child, without much parents love and became independent too early is TRAUMATIZED by his abusive father..

    There are 2 paths where this often generally leads:

    1. Either he becomes emotionally sensitive to everything and would distance himself to others and would definitely be afraid of the concept of "family" considering the environment he was brought up...

    Explains why he left dojin and byul before because his image of "family" is a mess.. afraid of what might happen to his and the kid's future that might turn out like his own parents considering just like him, his parents also did a "Shotgun wedding" since they had him accidentally...

    2. Would harden his emotion and just consider becoming independent.. like how he is in the beginning., Not caring about his surroundings, or what might the ppl around him say.. just a very independent person who doesn't want to involve himself with the concept of "family"

    This would often lead to "killing" their emotions for the benefit of moving forward and not looking back.. would probably work yourself to death for the family to avoid his "history" to repeat itself..

    I understand Mio's point that parents are supposed to be there for their children and once you're a parent, you have to think about your kids first.. but Parents are humans too and kids have sensitive senses.. they can feel when there's something wrong with their parents...


    Hye-sung is a Kid who got pregnant at an early age, without the right concept of "family" with him, it's natural to he afraid.. he's 20.. supposed to be a college student worrying about studies, but instead have to work and worry about his daily expenses, and being pregnant and pushed to a wedding suddenly did not help...You can't expect a person who didn't grew up properly and without proper environment to become a proper parent in a flash.. and there's no closure to everything he experienced.. everything is being thrown at him all at once.. A normal kid wouldn't be able to cope up mentally and physically to everything..

    Yes, life is not a fairy tale.., But just like science and math problems it's not easy to solve everything immediately.. it needs time to think, calculate and proper solving...

    Dr. LadySloth March 5, 2021 3:57 am

    Omg.. didn't notice i made a ling ass speech

    CT05 March 5, 2021 10:50 am

    Damn lmao that’s a lotta dislikes

    CT05 March 5, 2021 10:51 am

    You have smooth brain

    Sab March 5, 2021 12:48 pm

    if ur argument is DonT have a childe if ur not ready, 1) remember he didn’t actually want this child in the first place . 2) he was trying his best to be a parent until this situation that has deeply emotionally affected him, he isn’t only shutting his child out of his life. He’s shutting everyone out. Don’t act like he’s neglecting his child. Does his child not have a father? Does his child not have loving extended family that can help care for him? Like y’all really wanna sit here and act like mental health ain’t a thing :)

    moiear March 5, 2021 7:06 pm

    hey do you see all these ppl disagreeing with you its probably bc you’re in the wrong

    kenmasbottombish March 6, 2021 4:17 am
    I don't care what any of you say. Its not the kids fault. If you dont have the maturity to hold yourself together for your kid at least YOU SHOULDN'T BE A PARENT. HE'S BASICALLY DOING THE SAME CHIT. so gtfo wit... Mio

    Please go to a doctor ang get cheacked, theres a very big problem inside your head,VERY VERY BIG. take care or else you might get the corona

    kenmasbottombish March 6, 2021 4:20 am
    The moment you said as person who also has the same trauma.. i stopped reading. I don't care about what happened to you. Grow the fk up, people like you just want pity and you aint gonna get it from me. I dont ... Mio

    Babe, there clearly is a problem with you. You arent loved by your family properly tgat is why you dont know what is wrong nor is wrong, do not fucking read the story because even the author who made the story deeply knows what hyesung is going through, shut the fuck up and keep your stupid opinion in yourself. ~~

    Feh March 6, 2021 4:43 am
    @Feh, I do agree with what you just said about taking some time for yourself and be overall a better person. But I just can’t see myself to sympathize with him anymore. He’s unconsciously doing the same thi... Zhongli’s Wallet

    The severity is the part we're both not agreeing on, which is fine. I just don't think it's affecting Byul as much as you think it is. I know children can be perceptive to human emotions, but I feel like Byul is more on the understanding side. Although he can't possibly understand the intricacies of Hyseung's past, I think he'll be able to understand the need for having time for yourself. If you were to explain in simpler terms such as "Mommy wants to rest a bit, but he'll come back and play with you when he's ready." I think what's gonna happen in future chapters is that Hyesung overcomes his past and accepts it, and he's just continue to be loving towards Byul. Byul will still love him, and Hyesung will still love him too. Relationships is complicated, but it can be mended with effort.

    kenmasbottombish March 6, 2021 5:10 pm
    The moment you said as person who also has the same trauma.. i stopped reading. I don't care about what happened to you. Grow the fk up, people like you just want pity and you aint gonna get it from me. I dont ... Mio

    You are honestly so disgusting, you havent experienced being a parent yet so who the fuck gave you the right to order what parents should feel? He wasnt taking out his anger and feelings on byul, you can clearly see that he tried to smile infront of byul but he cant, so he simply says "please, i need some time alone" and youre here assuming shits please stfu