Ah yes. Men can't suffer as much as women. Not at all a dangerous idea that can be used to...

I think ur mixing up reality with the world shes in rn. In that world you’ve see that it’s completely based on men’s whims. Similar to how old medieval kingdoms were based, only princes could take over and become emperors or kings. Their wives were pretty objects to give them more power while the wives held none themselves. Commoner women were also sold as brides to make more money for their family, usually to older noble men who took interest in their beauty and made them their sex slaves basically. The author isn’t saying men can’t suffer or haven’t suffered more than women, but in their world it’s very clear that men would not have to go through all the shit women go through in their world (and they have a lot more options to improve their situation if they’re suffering!)

This. Gotta take things into context.

^^^^^^^ also a thought, they can only become a sorceress when they become SO desperate and basically want to die and feel nothing is true anymore. So even if a man suffered horribly it’s LESS likely he will not have any aspect of his life he can’t lean on.

Yep! That’s why those sorcerers are baddies now (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

You have got to be fucking stupid

i cant tell if ur calling me, the author, or the person who wrote the comment fucking stupid but honestly just chillll. if its the author, they wrote what they want u cant really change it just stop reading. if its me just look away from the comment cuz its not going to hurt u. if its the person who wrote the comment, again u can look away.

completely missed the point

also i meant to dislike the comment...

obviously the commenter girl lol. She didn’t reply to ur comment. Why did u think she even possibly meant the author when she didn’t mention the author??? Girrrl I’m sure she agrees with u just like i do.

Honestly, sometimes I think that I'm foolish and I doubt myself but thank you for raising my confidence up this much.

It's obviously the commentator, gaebitch replied directly to them. Please take your own advice and "chill", "look away." They were neither about u nor the author, why did u even come to such a conclusion? I am so confused.

Because it wasn't specified what they think was "fucking stupid". But yeah seeing all the hate and toxic responses that I got it's not really hard to get what they meant.
Anyway your the one who need to chill the most here. What is wrong with you ?

Do you know that men have a higher suicide rate than women ? 2/3 of worldwide suicide (meaning despite different cultures and society) are committed by men.

Let that sink in.

Aye, listen, we not talking about at this time lol. We talking about back then in their medieval time when many/DOZENS of restrictions were placed on women at the moment they were born & men were born in power or with better positions than women. You can’t expect for people who was living in medieval times to expect this society. I understand what you mean tho but u completely missed the point lol. Do you understand now?

Who they said is "fucking stupid" was extremely obvious. They said "you have to be fucking stupid" to you. They were talking to you, then they called you "you." They directly addressed you. This is as simple as 2+2. .

If I were you right now, I would 100% take appropriate action. Right here, right now the person who needs to be asking what is wrong with them is...you. If everyone around you is telling you that you're wrong, more often than not, you are indeed wrong :/ You literally started this whole thing off by being rude, you got back what you gave out.

People here aren't arguing that men do not suffer/don't suffer as much as women. You're the one here implying that a narrative exists, while it does not. Your perception of reality is deeply inaccurate. The issue is with you.

To conclude/my advice to you/stuff you should explain so people don't think that you're "fucking stupid":
-what are you even trying to say?
-why do you think that it needs to be said within this context?
-why do you think that ppl are saying that men can't suffer/can't suffer as much as women?
-What would you prefer for the author to do?
-Do you feel that a fictional story set in a universe that does not represent the reality we live in, is trying to be a factual depiction of the issues faced by people all around the world?
-Why did you start this whole conversation off with rudeness?
Tip: Use full sentences, make points, explain them, give examples from the story, link back to your original point.
Tip 2: Don't be a jerk if you don't want people to return that energy right back at ya.
Tip 3: Do not project your issues onto others. Figure out your issues and deal with them.

You're welcome.

hmm i dont really think u understood what i meant. when i meant chill, i meant that they should stop trying to call someone fucking stupid while not telling them why or at least trying to explain before calling them fucking stupid. anyway ig its my fault for not picking up on the cue but i wasnt really thinking straight when i replied so ig sorry?? i dunno what to say. but my argument before still stands. no need to curse ppl out before u explain.

I do 100% agree that they should have explained. Without the explanation, ppl can't really improve.

And it's chill, sometimes I don't pick up on stuff as well. But yeah, they were definitively on about JulyinAugust. I do agree with the other comments you left though.

i feel like ur missing my point 2. its not OUR world that we're talking about here. its their world. in their world, i would almost guarantee that women would commit suicide more than women. but also, i think u should stop trying to make mens problems seem bigger than womens in our world. cuz if u take ur suicide fact, what abt the women who are raped or sexually assaulted? 91% of victims in sexual assualt/rape are women. and the other 9% of men who are raped/assaulted are usually assaulted by men to begin with-

*Sorry i mean women would commit suicide more than men

I understand you have no idea of how medieval society worked or neither suicide and depression.
You seem to have a very caricatural vision of what life was in the past so I feel like I'm wasting my time arguing with you.