
Im not damning her tho? Im following her train of thought. The look on her face is already a red flag and i didnt say she already is.. what i said was hypothetical. Like note the "IF" i put there bc while i dont want her to do it, the author may have other plans for the sake of the plot but hopefully she doesnt go that path bc it's really not worth it in the end

I also like her, she is caught being a women in a period that is not nice being one, but what I don’t like is that she doesn’t want to be forced into a marriage but is thinking about forcing Khun to marry her even tho he already said the he loves another and is not interested in her in the slightest.

she never tried or even thought about forcing him (yet). and I guess that uncertain 'yet' hovering like a damocles sword over everyone's heads is what makes people loose their shit because of so many other precedents like that. her case seems a bit different to me though. until now at least she seems rather level-headed while also being hopeful still, simply trying to grasp her chance. which makes me think Fatima won't make such a rash judgement in this case as some readers make about her. She's known as a competent general after all. at least that's what Khun thought of her back then. of course we don't know her character well yet and what her desperation will make her do before and after the relationship of those two becomes official...

I mean being a good competent general does not cancel her being total hypocritical actions and thoughts ever since she shows up in the story. she is still a hypocrite and there nothing wrong with that and she everything else but "r level-headed" I think you lost what it mean when you said she is one, a "level-headed" person won't try to force someone else that said he loves someone to marry them, just to use them as a political tool.
she nothing like level-headed and more a dumbass at this point and I bet she will do even more of a dumbass shit if she can even offer him such a dumb suggestion has to marry her anyway and have a mistress, it disgusting to me really how she can approve using women and a man like this.
you free to love her character but at least get what her character even is.
Fatima really has so much potential but she's making it hard to not dislike her with the way she's thinking and acting right now. Like i get that you dont want to submit to the patriarchy girlie but if you're going to go about that agenda by ruining other ppl's relationships and implicating yourself like a fool who cant make proper decisions, you need to check yourself again.