
Seriously, when you visit Japan, I recommend you trying to share these criticisms you have of mangaka's and/or doujinka's work through visits, email, twitter, social media and the likes and see what kind of reception you'll get.
Although to be fair, you're likely unaware that there is realistic and "fluff" yaois out there but the only reason you don't see them translated is simply because Japanese to English translators don't find it as entertaining as the more toxic ones. It's not as "little" as you might assume them to be in reality, but until you learn Japanese for yourself, you're likely unable to find or understand them in the mean time.

Okay well I'm done with arguing. You guys were talking about how I was trying to shame people, which I wasn't, but instead all you're telling me is I can't say what I think and that my thoughts and feelings aren't valid and shaming me for sharing them and telling me I shouldn't and its worthless. I know what Im saying is all meaningless, so are the things you're saying. Its just a bunch of comments on a website that rips off scanlation groups. So why are you harking on me for saying anything at all? Why did me saying a little warning in the comments and saying to be careful of rape rile you up so much that you had to start all of this and be aggressive from the very start and clearly start a fight? I mean its kind of disturbing seeing how upset me sharing my opinions made you. I saw comments I didn't agree with but I just left it alone and made my own comment. I mean you're writing me back and in each comment nitpicking every little thing I say, making assumptions about what I mean, and then even when I say that isn't what I meant and explain myself its still not good enough for you. I've made myself clear but you still won't just drop it because you probably know already that you what you did was super unnecessary and just plain hateful from the start. You've already acknowledged you were aggressive, then brushed it off, then acknowledged that YOU REALIZED that what I said wasn't what I meant and that it just seemed like I was saying this or that but then still chastised me for the thing you acknowledged I wasn't trying to say. I don't get how what you're doing is different from what I'm did except I wasn't trying to go off on anybody. My comment wasn't aimed at anyone so nobody had to feel offended by it or criticized because like you said, the author will never see or care about my little comment. The manga made me a little upset at the end of it because I thought it had a bad ending and me saying that it bothered me, in your opinion, is sooo wrong and stupid. Yet you are doing the same thing. Just you're doing it over my comment instead of the manga. You really aren't being different than me yet somehow I'm the idiot that needs to keep my opinions to myself. You realize that I just made a little comment about the manga, which is what this whole comment section is for, right? But you are just using it to tell me I shouldn't have said anything and that my opinion is meaningless. Okay well why don't you go tell every other commenter that? Nothing anyone is saying in the comments matters so why is it such a big deal that I said rape is bad and this manga contains rape with a rushed not very meaningful ending? Some people read the comments to see whether the manga is something they want to read and so maybe my comment will make a difference and somebody will be like, "oh glad I didn't get into that, thats not my cup of tea". But either way, I don't care if it does! I just felt like saying what I felt about the manga. Seriously, why did you have to make it such a big deal? You act l ike I personally targeted my comment at you to make you feel bad. You're the one who started all of this and honestly it feels like your only point was to try to shut up the opinion you didn't like. I think its time for you to just stop.

Cool :) Making baseless assumptions about me because you didn't like what I said :) I know there are lots of mangas like that, I've found plenty that I wished were picked up by companies that translate them for US consumers or by scanlators. Don't remember where I said there weren't fluff yaoi or yaoi without dark themes....but I'm glad you could take the time to try and tell me how ignorant I am, even though you were wrong

It clearly doesn’t appear you are if you’re still responding to me.
First, I’m only one person so I have no idea why you’re referring to me as someone that’s plural. Even if that wasn’t your intent, it clearly does sound you are from your comment when you KINDLY informed us how “real rape” victims behave in a FICTIONAL WORK. That was all on you, don’t try to pretend that you didn’t write that. Honey, I’m not stopping you from doing such, I’m just ridiculing the fact that you are when it seems to me you’re forgetting the fact of just where you are aka an illegal pirating site that hosts thousands of similar offensive works. Not at all. See, as I told KBchan, you’re harking on the manga and giving critique to an individual that will NEVER SEE IT whereas I’m criticizing you, someone who can and see my critique. There’s a difference. My words can reach the intended party aka you whereas your words will never reach to them.
Honey, you’ve added warnings that everyone has clearly addressed and became redundant. I simply responded to you in particular because you had to bring up the country as though you were actually an individual from there otherwise I wouldn’t bother. Maybe next time, don’t speak for the country? It’s not as though you’re from there so how could you possibly truly know what its like there?
I think the disturbing people are the one preaching about “realism” in fictional works in all honestly as though none of you know what you’re getting yourself into when reading this genre. It would be like if I went to a forum for a horror genre and told the readers “you guys do know that murder and violence isn’t allowed right? This is not how REAL MURDER is like.” Notice the comparison of what you’re doing here, but no, I’m assuming you’re doing a social justice favor by informing the underage minors here what they’re getting themselves into?
Hey, this is the internet no? You’re allowed to speak your mind so surely I can. If you’re so offended, you’re more than welcome to stop commenting and continue on preaching about the how unrealistic yaoi is on other forums as you felt needed to here, as though the readers here need someone to kindly inform this isn’t realistic.
Granted, if I was unnecessary, so would you be so I guess we’re both engaging in unnecessary and unneeded comments but it doesn’t look you plan on stopping any time soon either.
Just because your comment had no particular subject, doesn’t mean it can’t offend people. You surely offended me with it and you’ll likely annoy and offend other readers here too because you see, that’s the audience you’re surrounding yourself with.
Hey, as I said, technically, I can’t really stop you from commenting but I can tell you how silly it sounds. I have no physical means to stop you and you’re aware of that too. It also seems to me you’re not reading my comments thoroughly when I said the only reason I criticize you was because you decided to speak on a subject outside of the manga aka Japan so that’s why I spoke.
Also, don’t pretend to be blasé towards this subject. You know if you didn’t care, you wouldn’t have bothered to respond to me in the first place? You’re the one over here who wants to inform me that you can say what you want and I said fine, continue to do so, but if you do get ridiculed for it, that’s just a part of, I don’t know, saying your opinion on a public forum.
My true intent was simply to show you what kind of the audience the mangaka was working with and that your comment was useless. If you want to go commenting on more useless rants and information, do so as how could I possibly prevent you from doing so(?), but do keep in mind that it is again useless as your audience are all pirated readers.
P.S: If a person needs someone to tell them that rape is bad, the better question to ask is why in the world are they reading this to begin with. Something you might want to keep in mind.

Actually that wasn’t an assumption. I was actually commenting back to your comment where you said it was natural for people to critique the media they consume so I decided to inform you if that was the case, you’re better off contacting the mangaka directly? Hmm, since you know that’s the entire point of critique an artwork, no? I mean, it clearly sounds like you want the mangaka to add more realism to her work so what better way to do that than to comment to her directly? (: Especially since you'll be at Japan someday ....
Oh honey, now you’re the one making assumptions of what you think my intent is. Seems like we’re both guilty of baseless assumptions. My intent was simply to say that despite all the offensive tropes you’ll find in mangas, realistic ones exist and that maybe if you do decide to learn the language as you will be going to Japan no(?), you’ll find the content that your social justice heart likely approves of.
Oh? How exactly am I wrong by any chance? That I was offensive to you just as you were to me?
P.S: You do know if you’d like to see a certain work pushed to be picked up, contacting publishing groups directly is a good way to get the titled known? As for scanlators, if you offer to assist them in their work, you’ll have a better chance of having them translated? Just an idea.

I think you're a total narcissistic dickhole and I don't even care how long ago you're fuckin' rants were, they were hilarious and I basically shit myself reading every one of them. Get the fuck off this site if you wanna criticize the people who use it so much. LMAOOOooOoooooO
Good.
At least he apologized and felt bad for it and even thought of giving up on the guy.
This is a fictional story, but on real life I'd never ever remain close with the person.