I actually like seme better than uke

kinda_judgemental January 23, 2024 8:38 am

ML is an asshole, but he's a self acknowledged asshole. That is why I like him better than the MC, as unpopular of an opinion as that is.
Here's my defence.

From ML's perspective, he starts a FWB relationships with this guy who doesn't complain about it until uke starts developing feelings, when that happens seme breaks it off because he doesn't want a relationship and HAS NOT PROMISED A RELATIONSHIP. After a while he gets his tut, can't find his rut stopper or whatever that was, and because I guess he doesn't want to spread his pheromones around and get all omegas in vicinity all crazy horny, he takes a leave of absences and goes home. Ay this point he's out of his mind, basically the equibalent of drunk, he's incapable of controling himself. Then the next morning he realises someone was there taking advantage of his rut madness, and didn't just fuck him without actual consent, but also bit him and basically forced him into biological life marriage. Then, after a while again, he finds out his rapidt was actually his former FWB who not only took advantage of him at his lowest and run away not confessing about it, but also got pregnant and kept SEME'S OWN CHILD away from seme, forcing him into being an absentee father. AND, the kid is seems has the same disease the seme had, an expensive disease that seme could've long helped with, but uke insisted to endanger their kid because of his cowardice. Just to reiterate, a child is made by two people, but only one of them had the choice of abortion.
On the uke's side, he's not exactly fine with a no strings attached relationship but doesn't say anything. Gets all sad and lonely when the guy that didn't pretend to have feelings for him says that he doesn't have feelings for him and stops their FWB relationship. Then, ine day, in this world where everyone knows about heats and ruts, he realises that his extra alpha former FWB dropped his heat stopper and then took a leave if absences from school for the day. IF uke would've put his second neuron to work, supposedly he is intelligent, he would've had this thought that hey, maybe he's in rut aka out of his mind amd extra horny, maybe it's better I DON'T RAMDOMLY SHOW UP AT HIS DOORSTEP. but he choose to fool himself into beliving that, because it's an expensive thing, he should shop up to the apartment of his former FWB and actual stranger woth no relationship whatsoever instead of sending a text because the stalker inside uke wanted to see his crush one more time .Then he spontaneously turns into an omega and gets his heat. What happens next wasn't either seme's or uke's, tho especially not seme's, he went home when he moticed his rut stopper is missing and didn't get any omega pregnant on the way there. Then, when uke wakes up, he runs away leaving seme ti think, for years, that he just got raped and branded in his own home. Because yes, when you're inebriated you can't give consent, si it was rape from his perspective. Yes men(and in this case alphas) can get raped too, even tho they are bigger and stronger and are the ones that put it in, instead of being the ones being penetrated by foreign things. Don't be sexists people.
Ok so yke runs away realising it was his choices that led to that and feels too guilty to tell seme that hey ot was be who branded you, btw you branded me too in return so let's deal with this together. Then realises he's pregnant and decides that just because seme didn't want to be in a relationship with uke (and also was forced into sex when he was just trying go pass his rut quietly), then seme probably doesn't want anything to do with his own child because that's how it works apparently, and also he might want to take the child from me and give me no shared curtody because ALL ALPHAS ARE DEFINITELY EVIL. And then keeps thinking it's better to risk the health of said child by not getting help from his father.

No, if I was the seme I would've taken the child from him first amd then maybe see if we can mend the relationship because it's better for the kid to have both parents close to him, but never forgive him. Instead, seme forced him to marry and move in and than get back into a sexual relationship where this time around it's the uke who gets consent more or less taken away from him, because he is a self acknowledged asshole. And he doesn't even seem that angry or violent, just controlling and pushy. And look, he even explains, the uke let his family know about their grandson so even if seme wanted to let uke free and not marry him, the kid would've been taken away, so he's actually giving him the option to stay in kid's life, unlike how the uke didn't give seme the same chance

I rest my case

Responses
    hoyeonie January 23, 2024 9:12 am

    Finally someone said this. The uke is basically endangering their child and knows full well he can’t take care of him well. The seem also has rights to that child because he didn’t abandon him. In my opinion, the problem in this story is the uke.

    Applepi January 23, 2024 9:12 am

    I mean I agree with like everything except for the fact that uke was a beta so even if he knew the seme was in his rut, he thought it wouldn’t affect him right? Thinking about it a little more clearly it’s like, yea he’s probably not in a good state but the seme was affected by mcs pheromones as he was turning into an omega and it’s not like he knew he was going become one.

    Arualo January 23, 2024 9:18 am

    I mostly agree with what you’re saying but his rut triggered the ukes heat so they were both basically inebriated.

    kinda_judgemental January 23, 2024 9:27 am
    I mean I agree with like everything except for the fact that uke was a beta so even if he knew the seme was in his rut, he thought it wouldn’t affect him right? Thinking about it a little more clearly it’s ... Applepi

    yeah but even without pheromones, he used to sleep with the seme so the seme could've recognised him instinctively as a warm body that could alleviate his rut symptoms

    kinda_judgemental January 23, 2024 9:28 am
    I mean I agree with like everything except for the fact that uke was a beta so even if he knew the seme was in his rut, he thought it wouldn’t affect him right? Thinking about it a little more clearly it’s ... Applepi

    yeah but even without pheromones, he used to sleep with the seme so the seme could've recognised him instinctively as a warm body that could alleviate his rut symptoms. And I know, I'm not saying the ule is to blame for becoming a omega, im saying neither is the seme. but the ule went there and put himself in danger and then run from the consequences

    AWinterWonderLand January 23, 2024 10:16 am
    Finally someone said this. The uke is basically endangering their child and knows full well he can’t take care of him well. The seem also has rights to that child because he didn’t abandon him. In my opinio... hoyeonie

    Yeah. I had analyzed this in earlier chapters but got a lot of hate for it cuz they're like oh, you're defending a rapist and I'm there like....excuse me?!?

    Lizan January 23, 2024 10:19 am
    I mean I agree with like everything except for the fact that uke was a beta so even if he knew the seme was in his rut, he thought it wouldn’t affect him right? Thinking about it a little more clearly it’s ... Applepi

    Exactly he didn't know he would turn in to one so how is this mc fault? And the ml was not interested in relationship so how would he have accepted the child? that is what ml have thought. and he didn't know if he would end up being pregnant and child will have a disease.

    Lizan January 23, 2024 10:23 am
    Finally someone said this. The uke is basically endangering their child and knows full well he can’t take care of him well. The seem also has rights to that child because he didn’t abandon him. In my opinio... hoyeonie

    I don't think so he didn't know he would turn in to one so how is this mc fault? And the ml was not interested in relationship so how would he have accepted the child? that is what ml have thought. and he didn't know if he would end up being pregnant and child will have a disease.

    AWinterWonderLand January 23, 2024 10:26 am

    The Pheromone thing is like a dance. Alpha releases pheromone to attract and turn on the omega (or omegas?) (or I guess in this case to make them go into heat). Then omega in heat (or turned on) in turn releases pheromones to attract the alpha. And so their mating dance is complete. Each affecting the other. This dance continues until the rut/heat has run its course. This also fuels the desire of the alpha to mark the omega, and for the omega to be desirous of being marked. Ultimately ending in pregnancy, since the purpose of an alpha and omega is to breed like animals, and that's what Ian hates the most. But unfortunately he got marked and didn't wanted it while Noah secretly did. But both didn't know that Noah had manifested and was turned on by a rutting alpha, and Noah hadn't known Ian was in heat cuz he had never (ever?) seen an alpha going into heat before. .

    kinda_judgemental January 23, 2024 10:46 am
    Exactly he didn't know he would turn in to one so how is this mc fault? And the ml was not interested in relationship so how would he have accepted the child? that is what ml have thought. and he didn't know i... Lizan

    I understand that's what he thought, I'm saying that it's because he thinks like that, that I'm on seme's side. If you equate not wanting to be in a relationship with a childless person to not wanting a relationship with your own already existing child, then I don't like you. I only blame uke for being reckless out of selfishness and visiting alpha in rut (because you're not an omega you think it's safe to basically enter the den of a crazed alpha?) and for running away without telling seme about what they both did while inebriated (because he's the only one remembering it and because he woke up first) and especially for not telling the seme that he got pregnant and decided to keep the baby (the seme is a father too, he had the right to know)

    Lizan January 23, 2024 11:14 am
    I understand that's what he thought, I'm saying that it's because he thinks like that, that I'm on seme's side. If you equate not wanting to be in a relationship with a childless person to not wanting a relatio... kinda_judgemental

    How is this selfishness when ml clearly said that he doesn't want any relationship he clearly call off their FWB relationship and doesn't want to see mc again then how do you expect that he would have told him about anything. I don't think mc is at fault here because he acted according to the situation.

    kinda_judgemental January 23, 2024 12:33 pm
    How is this selfishness when ml clearly said that he doesn't want any relationship he clearly call off their FWB relationship and doesn't want to see mc again then how do you expect that he would have told him ... Lizan

    uke literarely says that he's going to seme's apartament because he low-key wants to see him one more time. that's selfishness, he did that for himself, he could've given the blcker to the seme next day at school? he says it might be urgent but the seme was already at home, he wasn't having some crisis in the bathroom. To actually quote ch 9 "even though i knew it was pathetic of me, i was happy to have one more chance to see him one last time before i left the country. it should be fine, right?" well it wasn't fine, he ended up following home an alpha in rut

    Applepi January 23, 2024 12:42 pm
    uke literarely says that he's going to seme's apartament because he low-key wants to see him one more time. that's selfishness, he did that for himself, he could've given the blcker to the seme next day at scho... kinda_judgemental

    I mean it’s not like he was following him? And like it was pretty stupid but I think it’s understandable cause the poor dudes just in love

    kinda_judgemental January 23, 2024 12:50 pm
    I mean it’s not like he was following him? And like it was pretty stupid but I think it’s understandable cause the poor dudes just in love Applepi

    look, i get that the more I answer, the more it seems I blame the uke, but I swear I don't think that bad of him. I'm saying he was foolish, not that he was a predator or that he went there with the intention of getting raped or anything like that. Foolish and foolishly in love, personally I'm not a romantic person so that doesn't pull on my heartstrings, but I get it that there are some people that do stupid things when in love. I started this thread because I was annoyed at how much hate the seme was getting, when the worst thing to me was what the uke did, and by that I mean not telling the seme about that night and about the child they have together. What happened that night was a series of unfortunate events that they were both partially to blame and both victims of, but what happened in the morning and after was the uke's fault, he could've just stayed there until seme woke up and they could've deaalt with the aftermath together

    Applepi January 23, 2024 1:23 pm
    look, i get that the more I answer, the more it seems I blame the uke, but I swear I don't think that bad of him. I'm saying he was foolish, not that he was a predator or that he went there with the intention o... kinda_judgemental

    That’s true, totally get it. Guess I’m too much of a romantic lmao ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Kuroitenshi17 January 23, 2024 3:54 pm

    The only issue I have with your statement is you are kinda forgetting that the Alpha TARGETED the beta-> omega. That’s a Dominate Alpha - and considering how these recent chapters are going the ML is very socialable and very much not an idiot. Considering he’s a dominate Alpha pretty much means this guy can have almost whoever he wants soooo WHY target an innocent virgin Beta. You have to realize the Alpha knew exactly what he’s doing—- I mean even I know that you can easy say No strings attached BUT the alpha had to put in a lot of unnecessary work if all he wanted was a FWB — it’s kinda counter productive —- what I am saying is I DO NOT hate the Alpha, but what ended happening is kind of entirely he’s fault because HE the Alpha went after forbidden fruit, he should have kept the beta as a friend and never crossed the line..

    Again let me state again I do not hate the Alpha- I just have the opposite feelings that you have about him. ALSO I think the author is not giving us enough details I’m pretty sure there is an entire back story behind this alpha that we learn in the coming chapters. I also believe the alpha did have feelings for the beta unless he is one of those guys that wants to take V cards even though it might mentally mess up the other person once he dumps them when he gets bored …….
    To continue what I said earlier the MC never knew he was even a recessive omega he went to the alpha house to simply return something because they would never see each other again- what happened afterwards wasn’t under anyone’s real control- also the MC once he realizes what’s gonna happen, he tries to run away but to no avail. Bringing up my previous point you have to cut the MC slack because the alpha started this entire mess for going after an innocent timid guy, breaking down the MC walls and sleeping with him.

    kinda_judgemental January 23, 2024 5:32 pm
    The only issue I have with your statement is you are kinda forgetting that the Alpha TARGETED the beta-> omega. That’s a Dominate Alpha - and considering how these recent chapters are going the ML is very ... Kuroitenshi17

    So what you're basically saying is that the seme is an asshole, to which I 100% agree. And yeah, I get the whole "he played with my innocent heart so now i deserve some compensation", the uke really shoud be more angry than pitiful about how he was treated, I just can't get over the fact that the seme wasn't given a choice in whether he wants to be a father to his kid or not. Also, I too think the seme's backstory will explain why he went after him. My prediction is that he didn't like omegas because of something in his past, like getting taken advantage of when he was a kid because he's an extra super alpha or something, or that his family didn't give him a chance but to promise to marry a extra super omega regardless of his feelings, to make special children. He sought comfort and warmth in betas because he knew they wouldn't have expectations like marriage from him or wouldn't try to trap him and his family's money whith pregnancy. That's asshole and selfish behavior right there. he then becomes FWB with uke and kinda falls for him, but knows his family won't allow it so when uke tells him he has feelings for him, he decides to break it off now to not hurt both of them more later.

    Kuroitenshi17 January 23, 2024 10:06 pm
    So what you're basically saying is that the seme is an asshole, to which I 100% agree. And yeah, I get the whole "he played with my innocent heart so now i deserve some compensation", the uke really shoud be mo... kinda_judgemental

    I was also thinking the same thing except the reason why he stayed away from omegas has to do with that weird diseases that the alpha and the son share- which the author should chill a little with the scenes and explain what exactly is going on—— I don’t know the author is confusing me a little especially with this chapter when apparently the alpha never did oral on the MC and was always only on the receiving end- I don’t know what the author is trying to achieve, do they want the readers to be like OMG he isn’t as selfish in bed anymore he isn’t a bad guy ?! I’m just confused lol- even with learning about how the alpha is greedy in bed it makes me question if the alpha actually did care for the MC previously or was he just a conquest that the alpha wanted to conquer and got bored!!

    AWinterWonderLand January 23, 2024 11:58 pm
    I was also thinking the same thing except the reason why he stayed away from omegas has to do with that weird diseases that the alpha and the son share- which the author should chill a little with the scenes an... Kuroitenshi17

    I personally don't think he "got bored". Obviously he didn't want a commitment or a romantic relationship. He didn't get bored. He saw how Noah had reacted and decided to call it quits. We don't know how they transitioned into their FWB status, be it Ian's knowing Noah is naive and taking advantage of him, or just simply that their relationship seguewayed into it naturally. I don't know if Ian had been on the receiving end for orals, just that he never had gone down on Noah before and didn't take foreplay into consideration. I know he had cared about Noah. They had a good relationship before.

    Kuroitenshi17 January 24, 2024 5:02 am
    I personally don't think he "got bored". Obviously he didn't want a commitment or a romantic relationship. He didn't get bored. He saw how Noah had reacted and decided to call it quits. We don't know how they t... AWinterWonderLand

    The bored thing is the absolute what case scenario I get what your saying but- to put in all that work for a V card is pretty messed up— so I better find out he has legit feelings and not trying to rack of the number of betas he can get under him