Well that was intense

1evis1ittlea$$hole March 4, 2017 11:04 pm

I'm glad we have a chapter to remind us that yes, Yoonbum is not innocent but in fact pretty unstable himself. I actually like the route this manhwa is going now I feel much less guilty about shipping Sangwoo/Yoonbum it's a little less of a predator/victim relationship and more of a murder husbands thing (I miss Hannibal man) it's pretty interesting.

Kinda weirded out by the fandom tho like jeez some of ya'll seem a bit misogynistic to me. Even when Jieun wasn't being an insufferable dick ya'll attacked her. I'm not going get on anyone for being happy about her dying ( mainly people saying she deserves it. I would rather not defend murder even if it's on a fictional manhwa, I've got some morals at least)

But then I saw like a post about not wanting to see a naked woman (like we've seen plenty of naked chicks before but I guess that was ok because they were chopped up?) naked bodies are just nice to look at in general imo. idk I've never seen a fandom at like that before, at the least it's very immature. But shit happens in popular fandoms lol

Responses
    youraedthiswrogn March 6, 2017 1:41 am
    "Much like in yaoi you are hard pressed to find female characters that are decent and don't bitch, or any female characters at all.I am just asking why is that?"Because yaoi is a type of erotica focusing on mal... Anoni Grrl

    You did the same thing that the anon that i was talking about in the first place did. You're still talking about random feminist topics despite this being a comment section for killing stalking.

    youraedthiswrogn March 6, 2017 1:42 am
    I am not trying to demonize you. I mostly agree with you. I wanted to clarify that I am a feminist because sometimes on the Internet, "feminist" use used like a dirty word. It wasn't an attack on you. Let me r... Anoni Grrl

    oh, okay. I understand now, thank you for your contribution. (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    Anonymous March 6, 2017 1:43 am
    The answer to that is: because drama/plot. But i fail to see how you saying: "Are you sure you have never in your whole life criticize even to yourself how a woman looks, acts, or thinks?Why is feminism still a... youraedthiswrogn

    No it's not. Anoni grrl gets it, I don't understand why you don't.

    Anonymous March 6, 2017 1:44 am
    Exactly. Maybe I just never did phrase it as eloquently as you did. When i first saw this girl and when subsequently I saw what was assigned to her, I knew that she's going to be painted a certain way and then ... @Anonymous

    If you are looking for lovable female characters maybe you should pick a genre where the main focus isnt going to be malexmale relationships. Hmmmm.....maybe you should try reading yuri

    youraedthiswrogn March 6, 2017 1:44 am
    No it's not. Anoni grrl gets it, I don't understand why you don't. @Anonymous

    As i said, if i was wrong then i apologize. Was there something else i could do for you?

    Anoni Grrl March 6, 2017 1:45 am
    You did the same thing that the anon that i was talking about in the first place did. You're still talking about random feminist topics despite this being a comment section for killing stalking. youraedthiswrogn

    But I am doing it because *you* characterized the comment as feminist, which made feminism relevant. If you had simple said she was talking about issues that had nothing to do with Killing Stalking, I would have agreed (though I may not have posted). It was you who started using the term feminism--which made it part of the discussion. The topic isn't random--it's one you introduced by using the term.

    youraedthiswrogn March 6, 2017 1:47 am
    But I am doing it because *you* characterized the comment as feminist, which made feminism relevant. If you had simple said she was talking about issues that had nothing to do with Killing Stalking, I would hav... Anoni Grrl

    yes, because: "Are you sure you have never in your whole life criticize even to yourself how a woman looks, acts, or thinks?
    Why is feminism still a polarizing topic? Why is Planned Parenthood still picketed? Why are women's marches still needed? Why are legislations calling women "hosts" and why are pro-choice a dirty word for a majority of the world?" seems clearly, to me, to be a feminist argument... does that not seem feminist to you? At the very least it has nothing to do with killing stalking, so there's no way they came on here intending to talk about jieun.

    Anonymous March 6, 2017 1:50 am
    If you are looking for lovable female characters maybe you should pick a genre where the main focus isnt going to be malexmale relationships. Hmmmm.....maybe you should try reading yuri @Anonymous

    There are plently of good female characters in yaoi too.
    I am just questioning (also) about why the extreme and adverse reactions of readers to female characters who did very much less crime than the hallowed MCs. In some cases they're benign but still called to "die bitch". I am fine with malex male relationships or I won't be in here. Some argue if it's just a turn of phrasing others argue if it is judt fiction, I am just asking if it is really. If it is, then move along. Right

    Anonymous March 6, 2017 1:52 am
    yes, because: "Are you sure you have never in your whole life criticize even to yourself how a woman looks, acts, or thinks?Why is feminism still a polarizing topic? Why is Planned Parenthood still picketed? Wh... youraedthiswrogn

    Well I already told tou I am here to talk about Jieun. Maybe gramed in a larger more hyperbolic context than i should've. But I am giving an apple even though you keep insisting it is an orange.

    youraedthiswrogn March 6, 2017 1:54 am
    Well I already told tou I am here to talk about Jieun. Maybe gramed in a larger more hyperbolic context than i should've. But I am giving an apple even though you keep insisting it is an orange. @Anonymous

    What do you want from me? i've already said that if i'm wrong then i apologize, should i kiss your ass?

    youraedthiswrogn March 6, 2017 1:57 am
    There are plently of good female characters in yaoi too. I am just questioning (also) about why the extreme and adverse reactions of readers to female characters who did very much less crime than the hallowed M... @Anonymous

    I agree with you here, i don't think that jieun deserved to die and i don't think it makes sense for people to post all those "die bitch!" comments. Jieun is just a normal insecure bitchy chick (not generalizing women, just saying that she is normal if put into this category), she just seems horrible because we get to hear her inner monologue. It's just a bunch of people falling for the mangaka's bait and hating her just like they intended.

    Anoni Grrl March 6, 2017 2:28 am
    There are plently of good female characters in yaoi too. I am just questioning (also) about why the extreme and adverse reactions of readers to female characters who did very much less crime than the hallowed M... @Anonymous

    That's one way to look at it, but maybe we should consider the larger fandom context too. I am going to use an example because I don't think Killing Stalking fans treat the characters much differently than other fandoms. If we are going to comment on fan behaviors (which I probably shouldn't, but this can of worms is now open), sometimes larger social trends matter.

    I am also a fan of a show called Xena Warrior Princess. Back in the day, may fans disliked a male character male Joxer who was a buffoon who appeared for comic relief. Not all fans, mind you, but some very vocal ones. There were websites such as "die_joxer_die" and fans howling for his blood whenever he was on an episode. Xena, the heroine, is a former mass-murder "warlord" trying to seek redemption, and she still solved most problems by fighting. But she was the main character. Many of us shipped her with Gabi (the sidekick) despite the fact that Xena was domineering, a bit arrogant, and prone to violence. Both Xena and Gabi had flaws, but people who didn't like them probably didn't watch the show. Joxer was not a killer. He had good intentions. He was just annoying. The fans that found him funny defended him--but those that found him annoying hated him and created fanfic and fan art detailing his many deaths. The comments on Joxer were often crude.

    Going back even further, there were some Star Trek fans who hated a young male character called Wesley Crusher. Really, the guy was just annoying and not evil. But some wanted him dead.

    Fandoms often like characters for reasons that have nothing to do with how "good" or "bad" they are perceived to be. Some fans may dislike male characters they find annoying too. Often it's about which characters a group of fans enjoys watching or does not enjoy.

    HOLY SHIT! March 6, 2017 3:35 am
    That's one way to look at it, but maybe we should consider the larger fandom context too. I am going to use an example because I don't think Killing Stalking fans treat the characters much differently than othe... Anoni Grrl

    I thought I'd never see the end of this thread. This must be the longest thread I've read. I came here with no thoughts, then stumbled on this thread with THOUGHTS, but the more I read down the thread the more I lost my original thoughts, and all I thought about was how you (Anoni Grrl) and youraedthiswrogn sound like an old married couple having a tiff (CUTE! BTW. I ship you), Maltafenien is like a cool well-read older sibling, and Anonymous is like that affectionately annoying smaller sibling who means well.

    PS: I am not a creepy person or a stalker, I swear!

    Anoni Grrl March 6, 2017 3:57 am
    I thought I'd never see the end of this thread. This must be the longest thread I've read. I came here with no thoughts, then stumbled on this thread with THOUGHTS, but the more I read down the thread the more ... @HOLY SHIT!

    LOL--at least you enjoyed yourself. :)

    youraedthiswrogn March 6, 2017 4:42 am
    I thought I'd never see the end of this thread. This must be the longest thread I've read. I came here with no thoughts, then stumbled on this thread with THOUGHTS, but the more I read down the thread the more ... @HOLY SHIT!

    ahaha :^) i really enjoyed myself as well, thank you.

    Anonymous March 7, 2017 11:11 pm
    What do you want from me? i've already said that if i'm wrong then i apologize, should i kiss your ass? youraedthiswrogn

    Lmao sassy af

    HOLY SHIT! April 21, 2017 2:11 pm

    SEASON 2!!! You know what's funny? I didn't know why I had this thread on bookmark. BUt it was entertaining as hell before, and still is. Lol I don't know why I'm so amused by this. Baeeeee!

    1evis1ittlea$$hole April 25, 2017 7:26 am
    I'm a feminist, and I think the analysis of the comment is flawed because it assumes who don't like a female character must do it because she is female, and those who like messed up "bad" characters must do it ... Anoni Grrl

    tbh the yaoi fandom is pretty misogynist actually, yaoi in itself can be a genre with sexist tropes. I'm not saying that's the case all the time but when it becomes a pattern in a fandom it's a problem. Women are pretty demonized in yaoi so some fans are legit conditioned to hate women in yaoi simply as a knee jerk reaction. If someone expresses disgust for the female body because they don't want to see it in their "yaoiz" that's misogynistic af and pretty problematic imo lol

    1evis1ittlea$$hole April 25, 2017 7:28 am
    I don't think this moment makes S/Y any less of a predator/victim relationship. Yoonbum committed this crime after undergoing extreme physical and mental torture for idk how long. This torture included being ph... Maltafenien

    This is a really good point, I never thought of that. Now that I think of it my comment was a bit ableist and victim blaming :( fuck, thanks for pointing that out.

    Yeah I would rather her escape too, I feel bad for her family/friends

    1evis1ittlea$$hole April 25, 2017 7:30 am
    The anon made a valid point from a reasonable perspective. I agree with them, for the most part. A lot of readers here like to express some fairly questionable opinions and when critiqued use the "But it's Fict... Maltafenien

    I wish I can like this comment lol