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me too. in high school i used to say "if there is such thing as reincarnation i would like to come back as a gay man but keep my current personality that way i will still be head strong and fight any discrimination i may encounter" people thought i was odd. glad to know i am not the only one.
just because i thought that and still do doesn't mean i suffer from any gender issues or confusion. I have no problems with being a girl (besides the 3 days out of the month i hate my female parts- lol) nor do i identify with any other gender or sex (not that there is something wrong with it).
still i would really like to be reincarnation as a gay man or a lion, i am cool with either. just thinking about it makes me happy.

Using my imagintion does not mean I have a mental disorder. I don't need to be educated from you I have teachers, parents and books for that. Saying all of this in the comment section on a manga website about yaoi who's main readers are predominantly female who feel the same way, then you are in the wrong section. I also was referring to the future were ones own thought can become reality, who's to say with technology growing more advance. You need to be educating the young and those who have hate towards ppl who are different from their ideals and from what society says is normal and abnormal. To make my point me or any other fujoshi who says "I wish I had a penis and was homosexual" are the wrong ppl to be educating on the the dificulties of being homosexual. A yaoi fan has no hate, prejudice, or discrimination against the LGBT community. In other words you are pointing your finger in the wrong direction and wasting energy at the wrong ppl.

Using my imagintion does not mean I have a mental disorder. I don't need to be educated from you I have teachers, parents and books for that. Saying all of this in the comment section on a manga website about yaoi who's main readers are predominantly female who feel the same way, then you are in the wrong section. I also was referring to the future were ones own thought can become reality, who's to say with technology growing more advance. You need to be educating the young and those who have hate towards ppl who are different from their ideals and from what society says is normal and abnormal. To make my point me or any other fujoshi who says "I wish I had a penis and was homosexual" are the wrong ppl to be educating on the the dificulties of being homosexual. A yaoi fan has no hate, prejudice, or discrimination against the LGBT community. In other words you are pointing your finger in the wrong direction and wasting energy at the wrong ppl.

ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ it's okay your question is what a lot of fans are feeling. （/TДT)/ Hunger and thirst from the yaoi fandom shall never wither

I agree with @The only boi. It's because he speaks the truth. @Blu also says many correct things, but judging on all these comment below... These girls are all really just joking and fantasizing about an unreal homosexual male relationship. Some of these girls have gone as far as to become transmen, just to fulfill such "dreams". And I say this, because I've met some like this. As for the rest, they're just aroused by the idea of a fake, all around perfect, male relationship. Sure, let them be, but also them them know how it really is.

Thank you for being one of the few people who got my point. Growing up, I was envious of females who weren't judged for their attraction to men, but I wasn't female and hated myself for not fitting the role I was supposed to fit in. But, I wasn't female in my mind and heart. I grew up and learned to love who I was, but it took a lot of time that I may not have needed to take if I hadn't felt guilty about my sexuality. I rant quite a bit, don't I? I digress, the summary of this overdone paragraph is merely that I have nothing against fantasies; I only wanted to say that you don't have to envy a person who you can't be. You'll only end up feeling unfulfilled, so be yourself.

Gender dysphoria is a serious mental disorder. If you have the feeling that you are a male, then you have a mental disorder. If you only rely on parents, teachers, and books, you might not want to close your mind off from other points of view and you may find that adding "peers" to the list will help you educate yourself on being a more well-informed young lady. Education should be done everywhere to everyone, no one should stop learn because they feel they are superior. "The fool believes himself the wisest, and the wisest believes himself to be the fool". The way to create change in the world is to try to educate everyone, just because you aren't stoning homosexuals, doesn't mean you know everything about being a gay male. As I've stated before, you can have these fantasies, but know that it isn't better to be a gay male. Personally, I doubt the human race will last long enough to create anything as wonderful as "where one's own thought can become reality", but if you believe this may be something possible, then I say that you should be the one to invent something that does this. Never too young to create, and you feel very passionate about such an invention.

I think you did not get what the only boI wants to say .They wanted to say in real life if you think you want to became male it's an issue and being a gay male is not a joke.you don't want to be male in real life do you ?,you yourself said it's just fantasy and here we can think what we want to but then you contradict yourself by saying you don't meant it as a joke which made people.think that you are talking about this seriously and you really want to have penis .I know everyone here is joking and they just fantasizing about I wish I had a dick so I can thrust it in someone's ass.which is fantasy but in real life it's different .You could have said it that it was meant it in a fantasy and I was just fantasizing it but then you said you didn't meant it as joke which makes it quite serious you know.!. I quite understood what you mean but you somehow contradict you own words here a bit.

What your still don't understand this is a topic created about the yaoi fandom. This is not the place to be talking about such things. Who are you trying to convince? If you want to discuss such things that had nothing to do with the joys of yaoi then I suggest you either say yes or no to the question that was asked. If you don't want to join in the so called ''fantasy'' then go write a college thesis, book, or discuss the matter at your local high school but not on a website in a yaoi forum filled with fans that love to indulge in this so called fantasy! Telling fans they have an over active imagination or mental disorders makes you no better than ppl who make fun of homosexuals or ppl who actual have mental disorders. You don't get to pick and choose what things can make someone feel picked on or bullied. I will not feel pressured to change my euphoric opinions on YAOI just to stroke your pathetic ego! Whether I am female or male should be of no concern to you just as much if I was homosexual, lesbian, heterosexual or bisexual. Go educate your negative opinions to ppl who you think agree with your views. That fact you think that ''We are simple creatures acting on basic and typically violent behaviors'',says that your looking for someone to validate your real world opinions on a manga website about a yaoi topic that has nothing to do with the question the person posted. Your in the wrong topic and need to go troll somewhere else to spew your so called anti hate on love that fans have for their fandom somewhere else (●'◡'●)ﾉ.

The fact you are desperately clinging on to your faulty argument is almost laughable, before I wasn't so angry, but now, after this feeble statement, I'm at the end of my rope. I'm going through and picking apart every sentence in this post just to show you how ridiculous you are being.

"What your still don't understand this is a topic created about the yaoi fandom."
-Of course, I understand. I was only trying to put things in perspective and state that you should love yourself for who you are and that, while fantasies are OK, there are downsides to everything.

"This is not the place to be talking about such things. "
-knowledge should be shared everywhere, no one should be spared from the facts.

"Who are you trying to convince? "
-Who do you think? No one! I wanted to state a fact, not start a movement.

"If you want to discuss such things that had nothing to do with the joys of yaoi then I suggest you either say yes or no to the question that was asked."
-I'm going to say that I don't believe in yes or no questions because they don't really tell you anything. Knowledge should be burrowed in every crevice and corner, and every moment you question your own beliefs is a moment worth its weight in gold. This statement also sounds like you started off saying one thing, and then you switched in the middle.

"If you don't want to join in the so called 'fantasy' then go write a college thesis, book, or discuss the matter at your local high school but not on a website in a yaoi forum filled with fans that love to indulge in this so called fantasy! "
-Why can't yoai lovers express their opinions and still enjoy a fantasy? Why can't the lovers of yoai be philosophers or intellectuals who love both sides? I remind you that this started because I said that life isn't always greener on the other side. Why would I go to a high school; I'm gay, not a pedophile. I guess your edgy humor is lost on me.

"Telling fans they have an over active imagination or mental disorders makes you no better than ppl who make fun of homosexuals or ppl who actual have mental disorders. "
-The mental disorder I keep referencing is gender dysphoria. Let that sink in a moment. I'm not making fun of you; I'm disagreeing with you. I understand you may be young, and it may be harder to think about topics more abstractly or to experience a differing opinion, but you are going to need to learn. I'm am not the same as the woman who held me to the floor; her rancid breath hot on my face as she screaming in my ear about how, in her house, she will never accept me as her son, if I insist on pretending to be something so stupid. You don't seem to understand, but a differing opinion isn't bullying; it's called disagreeing.

"You don't get to pick and choose what things can make someone feel picked on or bullied."
-No, I do not, but having a differing opinion is off limits for the "bullying range" as it is a stunt to intellectual growth. If you can't handle someone who disagrees with you, then you should drop out of school, leave the Internet forever, and move to Mars, cause honey, I can tell you: it gets much worse.

"I will not feel pressured to change my euphoric opinions on YAOI just to stroke your pathetic ego! "
-Keep your fapping material and go on, love yoai to death, but that doesn't stop reality from sucking sweaty balls. I only wanted to say that it does. Also, if we're going to get into semantics, my Id is going bananas.

"Whether I am female or male should be of no concern to you just as much if I was homosexual, lesbian, heterosexual or bisexual."
-I'm glad we agree because I don't care; I was only saying that it sucks to be gay sometimes.

"Go educate your negative opinions to ppl who you think agree with your views."
-Firstly, not how education works, secondly it's not negative; it's a purely neutral fact that I've been defending.

"That fact you think that ''We are simple creatures acting on basic and typically violent behaviors'', says that your looking for someone to validate your real world opinions on a manga website about a yaoi topic that has nothing to do with the question the person posted. "
-That was a response to an idiotic comment. Also no, I'm not looking for validation; the only one who is looking for validation is you. You're being hypocritical and childish. Please read your own comments before posting another crappy response that doesn't really make much sense. Also I'm an absurdist; I don't look for reason in the darkness; it isn't there. I was only stating the most basic of human aspects to support a point.

"Your in the wrong topic and need to go troll somewhere else to spew your so called anti hate on love that fans have for their fandom somewhere else (●'◡'●)ﾉ."
- I never said this was anti-hate; I merely said it can suck to be gay. I love the love you have for your fandom, but just because you love your fandom doesn't mean I can't express an opinion that relates to it? Is free speech a problem for you? I'm in the right topic, if you look at my original post.

Sincerely,

the Alexander Hamilton of poorly written rant posts.

Ah, the language barrier. My point is that being gay is hard sometimes. I have known many men who are transgender in my life time, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you feel like a male, then feel like a male, but know there are problems that come with it.

Eh yes I was meant to say that did I said something wrong??? (￣∇￣") I am sorry .When I was saying it's male is an issue I mean to say that if you wanted to be male there will come problems too and she was just fantasizing it I don't think she want to be male in real life.

Let me see if I understand- you are not stating that you hate or love being gay or even if it is better being straight or gay. You are simply stating that it sometimes sucks to be gay- it is not always sunshine and rainbows. I see your point, most of us see and agree with your point. It is most defiantly “not always greener on the other side”. There is no way that any adult or teen can believe that being gay doesn’t come with difficulties or even tragedies. Even in a country like the united states there are hate crimes against gays, we see it on the news and hear about it from our friends. There is no way to escape these facts but sometimes it is fun to fantasies and romanticize about what it would be like to be gay. Yes I am female, I have never been in a relationship with another female and I have no issue with my sex, gender or sexuality so I can never really understand from an emotional point the difficulties that may come from having those issues. Although I know it is not always sunshine and roses I still have fun with the idea of being a gay man (I would totally be a top). Like myself, I am sure most yaoi fans fantasies being a gay man with the sweet and cute yaois in mind- the ones where the parents accept their sons and they find love with ease and no complications and not with the harsh realities in mind. Sometimes it is fun to imagine without thinking about all the cruelties. Your point is valid and sound- there is nothing wrong with it- but our desire to imagine is also valid.

I dont see it as a joke, what was the joke? Since I don't have a penis I can only view it as fantasy. Saying its not a joke and that it's a fantasy is not contridicting, thats not what it means to contridict.

Oh yes I am sorry I am wrong here I didn't express my self properly here and I am at fault.iam sorry for that .I will take my leave now

@the only boi. Yous right man. I honestly think majority of the people in the yaoi fandom ONLY see sunshine and rainbows BECAUSE the source and image carved in their imagination about positives in being gay is the mangas. And the mangas on here portray a pretty ideal world for gays (except the rape. That shit is cray cray.) where they thrive and most of the time have a happy ending with their significant other. What you're stating is the real world and it's definitely true that gays are not socially accepted and that's why you even started your point which is to say, y'all mfs think being gay is sunshine and rainbows when it's NOT. Blu was going on and on bout fantasy or something, idk, I understand her views too but at the same time, feeling like she's not getting it tbh lol Yeah, you can imagine wanting a dick, wanting to be a guy, no harm done there. However, you can't just ignore real life and just go "this is a fantasy so yadayada". I know this is a yaoi community where people might seriously think of turning male but once you do, don't expect rainbows and sunshine, cuz you ain't getting that. Fantasy and real life ain't the same thing. So by saying it ain't a joke, meaning the situation shouldn't be taken as fantasy. Even if it is, at least understand the responsibilities of being male and liking the same sex.

And tbh I didn't even read all the replies cuz damn, the only boi was writing an essay lmaooo but I think I got the overall idea of this argument (if I didn't then just ignore this whole comment :D) so this is just my two cents.

You say you dont care but your assuming what gender I am? I dont need your so called knowledge. You are no philosopher just a narcissist who likes to troll his time and hateful antics on fans. If you read any of my comments I never switched I just gave you a better understanding of where my comments were coming from. Rather than seeing my point you just rambled on without reading the proper context. You also started posting negative remarks that insults fans. You might think your spewing knowledge while others think your talking trash. In other words, what you call knowledge is ignorance to others. The hipocracy in your comments are blind to you. You need to read what you write before you post. You like calling ppl idiots when going to a high school would actually benifit. The youth today are bling to their own ignorance because they either don't know or understand just how much their actions and words affect their fellows peers. Kids are venerable and high schoolers are just trying to fit it. Going to high schools and teaching teens that ppl who are different are also ppl. They have families, friends and love music, basically those ppl are different but are still human. No two ppl are exactly alike even twins. You freedom of speech is being directed at the wrong ppl. No true yaoi fan would make fun of ppl who are homosexual. We all have our issues but that doesn't mean you can insult fans for indulging in their yaoi delusions. I have gay friends and many yaoi fans who have the same answer as yes to the question the original person posted. You don't know me so don't assume that I don't know the hardships of ppl that are attracted to a different gender or both. I watched a documentary on transgenders having to live in sewers because their own family disowned them. I know personally how difficult the torment and ridicule ppl must go through just for loving the same gender or wanting to live as the opposite.

You know what? Your right I'm being childish. I should have done this from the start.
Hi, you seem like you are very young; I suggest you read a book instead of wasting your time arguing with someone twice your age. I recommend Plato's "The Republic". It was my favorite book when I was around your age.

You should talk to my poor 8th grade history teacher. He can tell you what an essay is. He asks for two pages on the civil war, and I gave him ten. -maniacally laughs- But yes, you got the entirety of my point.

Again do you not see the insults in your comments? The only books I read are those relating to science since our very existence starts off with the division of a single cell. The more you know about your body the better you can protect it. Keeping clean the only planet known to man thus far that's able to sustain life. The very ground you walk on is also your home.