Not everyone bleed the first time and it should not hurt like this if it is done right !
Indeed, they should've started with fingers
Or rather, continued, before penetration
Actually not true the linen in the vaginal area is super delicate that’s why popping the cherry is a thing just because they don’t bleed the first time most likely means she has popped it already for other reasons even a tampon can cause a tear if you hit your vaginal area somewhere too can also cause it to tear or maybe he was too small and couldn’t pop it! Hope this helps.
Exactly but they both had no idea what they were doing he literally only experimented on himself and never on another girl so he most likely only knows his own anatomy
That's not really how it works tbh..
Bruh, no. Bleeding on the first time is a myth propagated by asshole men who didn't know anything about foreplay and went in dry. Unless your vaginal canal is extremelly narrow, you shouldn't be bleeding on your first, second, or ten thousand time so long as you warm yourself up.
Now, Richard's dick is massive (like, weapon of mass destruction massive). As we just witnessed in this latest chapter, he will cause ruptures any time he carelessly puts that thing inside someone, but it is in no way, shape, or form normal for Courtney to bleed like that.
Your virginity is showing
Your lack of proper sexual education is showing
What do you mean by sex education? You simply bleed when you lose your virginity. It doesn’t really hurt, but you do bleed. When you experience it one day, you’ll know. ☠
Unwanted pain and/or bleeding during during sex is NOT normal, regardless of experience level.
"Popping your cherry" is a part of a social construct, which has been medically disproven. Tearing the hymen during activities such as putting in a tampon, or gymnastics is also unproven.
The hymen is a sensitive membrane, but not necessarily fragile/"super delicate", especially after puberty.
The flood of hormones causes the hymen to thicken, and become extremely stretchy.
It's a very individual piece of anatomy. It's also designed to disintegrate, so the hymen looks different depending on the individual, and their age. Some people have the stereotypical annular (full ring of tissue) that's commonly represented in media, but there are many varieties and appearances.
Since the hymen does begin to thin out as you age, it's common for it to disappear on it's own (without trauma) or be stretchy enough that the individual never tears their hymen.
It's 100% possible to have penetrative sex with a fully intact hymen, and feel no pain.
It's also true that foreplay, stretching, and working up to a larger size for penetrative sex (or playing alone) might be necessary depending on individual anatomy.
This paper gives a brief overview on the hymen, and is a good starting point if you actually want to learn more about afab anatomy.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9306936/
You are wrong. I had sexual education in school and did my own research. Bleeding and not bleeding are normal. Even with prep you can bleed because some people still have their hymen intact, which varies in thickness and size. This breaks either before the first time naturally through things like exercise or during the first time, and for some people it might not. So please do your own research and dont spread false info that might freak some people out. Even with prep bleeding during the first time and light spotting for a couple days after is normal (tmi my experience), unless it’s heavy bleeding. You’re welcome for the lesson.
reading the comments here proves that I'm still somewhat innocent I didn't even know itΣ( ￣□￣||) (I don't know any thing cause I'm a virgin)(≧∀≦)
As I said he should’ve loosened her properly and it’s not a myth you can bleed your first time even with proper preparations
You’ve literally said a whole lot of nothing bleeding is normal stop spreading misinformation on the internet
Bleeding is a sign of trauma, and is NOT normal.
I literally included a link to actual research.
If you are unable to comprehend basic medical facts, you have no business arguing about a topic you clearly know nothing about.
Bro you obviously don’t know what you’re talking about obviously it’s a sign of trauma cause it tore not everyone tears but some do it’s normal stop saying it’s not when it is even tampons can cause a tear if you use the wrong sizing a man who’s like double the size of a tampon will obviously tear if not preparing the female properly but even with preparation tearing is still possible you can actually tear it on multiple occasions yes virginity is a social construct but that doesn’t mean the hymen tearing is a myth it’s normal and it can happen it literally says it’s delicate
Bleeding and pain is a sign that something is wrong and there's an injury bcz the vagina is still dry, the whole "pop the cherry" shiz is still a social construct, idk where you get your research from
Nothing is wrong it’s just a tear you can be super wet and still tear like it’s not rocket science and I already said I know it’s a social construct you obviously ain’t reading yourself
Yes and the tear is a sign that something went wrong that's the point. She shouldn't be tearing bcz of it. The vagina loosens up more when aroused
Y’all gotta be virgins cause obviously she’s going to bleed it’s her first time he should’ve done more to loosen her up but he’s a virgin as well so it’s obvious they wouldn’t know what to do but Richard my boy you need to know what stop means (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ (some of y’all need to look it up google is very helpful you know)