The person calling me chronically online, I said for the last time just bcz tearing happens for wtv reason doesn't mean it's normal or should be normalized or taken as a given
The whole point of this discussion is that its pretty normal for the HYMEN to tear, once during your first time resulting in some spotting, and then it shouldnt happen again after the first time if your hymen hasnt already broken prior to that. If you are tearing anytime after that then yes that is not normal
as a non virgin, if they losen you up ppl very often DONT bleed.
No im not I’m telling you what’s gonna happen they might give you some ointment or something and that’s it cause it’s not even a big tear spotting in so normal
Not everyone is the same hope this helps!
thats why i said OFTEN. but the norm is to not stretch out the woman, as portrayed in this webtoon. ideally you DO, which helps prevent bleeding.
its important that you know thay if a woman is prepped using fingers and lube, bleeding is much less common. its just that this doesnt happen most of the time.
I’m aware if you look at my original comment I said he should’ve done more and if she said stop he should’ve stopped bleeding is a normal occurrence for first timers but could’ve been prevented
Whoa hahahaha looks like you stepped on a landmine, so I have to add my opinion! I agree with you and before anyone screams at me that I'm a virgin I'll tell you I'm 47 with 5 kids and I taught sex ed ......So for your information 90% of females have a Hyman and therefore bleed the first time ; if a female doesn't and it actually is her first time then she has torn her hyman before without realizing. I'll give you some examples horseback riding, westling, bike riding , practicing the splits, gymnastics ecetra. So basically enough physical exertion or impact in the groin and pubic bone area.
Y’all gotta be virgins cause obviously she’s going to bleed it’s her first time he should’ve done more to loosen her up but he’s a virgin as well so it’s obvious they wouldn’t know what to do but Richard my boy you need to know what stop means (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ (some of y’all need to look it up google is very helpful you know)