Folks seeing this as “hawt” and “sexy” when we are in fact dealing with an extreme...

Ziwe October 3, 2024 4:54 am

Folks seeing this as “hawt” and “sexy” when we are in fact dealing with an extremely broken person who uses sex as an escape from his trauma. Porn has RUINED some of y’all thinking!

Responses
    Unicorngrace October 3, 2024 9:02 am

    Thank u ! Please marry me you're so right !

    hargau October 3, 2024 12:04 pm

    It's hawt because it's messed up lol

    Nana October 3, 2024 2:16 pm

    ??? It's hot exactly because it's NOT real life but just fiction and we're free to fantasize abt toxic stuff if we like , while knowing perfectly well they'd never work out irl. Learn to differentiate.

    Ziwe October 4, 2024 2:58 am
    ??? It's hot exactly because it's NOT real life but just fiction and we're free to fantasize abt toxic stuff if we like , while knowing perfectly well they'd never work out irl. Learn to differentiate. Nana

    Learn to differentiate? It’s fiction?? Lol your critical thinking skills must be on leave today. It’s the same romanticisation of toxic and trauma behaviour in fiction that perpetuates the suffering of victims IRL!! Toxic stuff almost always works out irl, there are so many ppl in situations like Ian, some even in worse. Having honest conversations surrounding trauma is what we should be doing not calling abuse hot because it’s fictional and the smut turns you on. Do better!

    ChickenButt October 4, 2024 5:32 am
    Learn to differentiate? It’s fiction?? Lol your critical thinking skills must be on leave today. It’s the same romanticisation of toxic and trauma behaviour in fiction that perpetuates the suffering of vict... Ziwe

    That’s their only argument haha.

    liquidlogic7 October 4, 2024 6:49 am

    I think you need to calm down

    Nana October 4, 2024 2:34 pm
    Learn to differentiate? It’s fiction?? Lol your critical thinking skills must be on leave today. It’s the same romanticisation of toxic and trauma behaviour in fiction that perpetuates the suffering of vict... Ziwe

    You're being rather reactive to what is simply a difference in how we are all free to consume media, as long as it doesn't cause harm to others.
    So, again..Learn.To.Differentiate.
    If you'd like to analyze a piece of media aimed for entertainment as if you're doing a dissertation on the human condition, or just use it as sample material to discuss concerns that you have about topics portrayed in the story/as a jumping off point for issues as seen through a real life moral lens, you sure can do that. As I can do the opposite. Highly suggest to get off your high fictional puritanist horse and fight where it actually matters.

    Nana October 4, 2024 2:35 pm
    That’s their only argument haha. ChickenButt

    Yes, cause it's a valid one. Give it some thought, maybe.

    ChickenButt October 4, 2024 2:57 pm

    @Nana don’t reply and block if you can’t handle.

    Okay but you don’t think the abuse or trauma is hot, right?